2006-11-04 11:15:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My fiance` has done that to me before. I know he loves me and he does not mean to upset me. Like my quote says, " The ones that loves you the most, bugs you the most."
2006-11-04 11:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by NATASHA W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try not to take things personally. But if it happens all the time you might have to question whether or not he is doing it on purpose. If its a constant thing and you are being upset over it often, then he might not even care that these things he does hurt you, and then that could be a bigger problem.
2006-11-04 11:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by pinkboopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all in the mind. Write on a sheet of paper every time you get upset and why. Annalise and see why you got upset You will also make a determined effert not to get upset. Also remember if this is the man you love he will walk away if you do not correct yourself. That should motivate you
2006-11-04 13:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned a long time ago not to sweat the small stuff, it just isnt important. I dont wanna upset myself for something that is insignificant in the long run. I go with the flow and sometimes i just ignore what mine says. It goes in one ear and out the other. He's the way he is and as long as he's not meen to you then you should calm down and relax. Ask yourself if its really that important and if not then brush it off and life goes on.
2006-11-04 11:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by *COCO* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've just broken up with my girlfriend/partner of 3 years because of constant petty arguments, almost always her being angry with me over some perceived slight. she just would never want to hear that we all do things that will bug someone else - what you need to check is whether it's done on purpose. does he really want to hurt you? don't you do things that bug him too but he doesn't mention them? he probably doesn't mean to upset you so just let the little things slide. it's not worth it. if he cheats or hits then fine, leave; if he forgets to buy the bread one day it's not because he doesn't care - he just forgot. good luck.
2006-11-04 19:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by Philip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If (big if) he doesn't mean to upset you, maybe you should try talking to him about how you feel. Also, I would suggest as you seem to think it is YOU with the problem, that you go talk to a professional about your anger / reactions to him. A therapist may be able to tell you why you react this way, and they will be able to teach you how to deal with it. Good luck.
2006-11-05 21:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch your caffine intake...it may not be that hes doin things to make you mad... it may be that your just irritated about something... you should take a walk at the park and calm down a bit... have some alone time... it sounds also like you spend every minute of the day with him... so maybe a lil break will help..
2006-11-04 11:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by c t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try thinking about why these things upset you so much or talk to him about it. If you really want to be with him then try not to let these things get to you so much.
2006-11-04 11:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by feefee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try taking anger management lessons they are some free sites online that you can pick a few tips from trust me try www.realhope.com it helps trust me coz if you cant control it now you will end up arguing and fighting
2006-11-04 11:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by jollybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is upsetting you every day and making you cry then sweety he isnt the man for you! remember!! them who make you cry arnt worth the tears and them that are worth the tears dont make you cry!!
2006-11-04 11:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋