Do u think im weird because i dnt ...?

Question

Listen to music, watch telly, Socialize, go to college etc? i cnt even watch a film. i dnt want to do any of those things. i dnt like it. i wasnt like this. ever since i was a child dreamed abt getting a motor bike and wntd to be a rebel. i liked rock music, led zep, pink floyd, acdc, steppen wolf, gNr, red hot chili peppers and the list can go on. but for the past year i feel like this. i was never into socializing, friends etc. i used to love the playstaion. i just want to sit and think. recently i had a bit of an obbsession with clothes, hair and make up. wntd combat pants, shimmery makeup and wild hair. i seem to grow out of things i like quickly. i dnt spend time with my parents, i dnt want to. i dnt wnt to meet ppl or anything. no i aint depressed. i have 2 brothers whom i love dearly, but i cnt see them coz of their busy lives. also love spending time with my 3 yr old nephew. he fascinates any1 else feeling like this? i just cant be bothered with anything.

i meant to say he fascinates me. i do see my brothers but not as often as i like to.

Answer 1

In some ways I feel like I know what you mean. But it sounds like to me that you are going thru a tumultuous time, but also a period of spiritual searching. Realizing that many things are just trivial. Even life and death can be seen as trivial in the large scheme of things. If a person watches the news, they can also get depressed about the state the world is in, and find the piddly things of Hollywood to be as stupid as can be.

I would just ask that you have as much patience for your fellow human beings as possible. I'm having issues in this area, and I don't know if you are, but if you are, try to realize that we are all alike in many different ways, even as we are different. And the people that get caught up in these things are mainly doing it to have something to do, something to give themselves meaning.

One of my brothers told me this, when I was going thru a rough time. To latch on to something, even my pickup. It may sound silly in it's own way, but I know what he was saying. I feel like each one of us need some kind of 'standard', and I mean that like it was talked about in the middle ages, a certain credo, symbol, or something for us to raise and feel proud of, to believe in. I'm not much into christianity, but I do realize where the christians are coming from. At least they have a belief. Their belief makes them feel strong at times and carries them thru the rough times. Sorry for babbling. Feel free to write to me anytime.

Answer 2

i've gotten this way, just never for that long. Usually it's because i feel like I'm waiting for something to happen, and usually it's something I don't know I've been wanting. And things keep coming along but they aren't it, and they just don't grab me... at all. And I know what you mean, it's not really depression, it's just this sense of "so..." i usually spend time contemplating, and never get anywhere. Try something you've never done before, that's what I do, or do something crazy that's out of character. And then, you remember who you are, and why you're prouod to be that even if you're not always happy with yourself, and things get back to the feeling of being lucky to be alive...

Answer 3

I don't think you're weird. I think you just don't know what you want to do with your life. You're bored with life. Your unhappy, in general. Try to examine yourself. Find out what you really want to do. Find out what makes you tick. Then, focus on it. If you love your 2 brothers, you should try to see them more often. It would help if you tell them how you are feeling. It doesn't matter how busy they are, they should spend time with you or at least, talk to you over the phone. That is what family is for, to help and support each other. Please don't give up on yourself. It is just a phase you're going through. You will get out of it, if you help yourself. Try to reach out your old friends from school or neighborhood. It would help you find someone to talk to. Please try not to be a loner. You need to interact with people. Remember, no man is an island. You need to help yourself before anyone can help you. Good luck!

Answer 4

You aren't weird. You are seriously introspective, and very definitely unsociable. You do need to get out and meet people, interact with people of your own age who might have similar tendencies as yours. There's no crime in doing what you are doing, it's just that you will be looked on as 'maladjusted'. It's a good sign that you are not depressed. I have no problem with your tastes in music. I'm a fan of Pink Floyd myself. Some people would describe you as a clasic 'tomboy'. I would go so far as to say that your obsessions are what is holding you back. I also think you may have a problem with your diet. Some of the food you eat may contain stuff that affect your attention span, because you say that you 'grow out of things quickly' (your words, not mine). My suspicion is that you are in your late teens, possibly early twenties, but you really need to get out and mix with people. There could be others who might share your tastes in music and your interests in whatever 'shakes your tree'. In short, go out and find them.

Answer 5

Well if he is straight you are out of luck. The problem with people who aren't straight dating in middle school and highschool is that a lot of homo and bisexuals haven't admitted it yet. Give it time but don't make a move on this guy

Answer 6

No you are not wierd. I like my solitude, rarely watch a movie all the way to the end, haven't been to a theater in fifteen years. I don't like to socialize. Don't like company Christmas parties (300 people).

Anyone says you have a problem, tell them to stop bothering you. Why should we all be conformists?

Answer 7

If your lifestyle bothers you, then you should get some help. But otherwise, how you describe yourself sounds fine to me. I am a little weird too so that's the start of a movement. Right?

Answer 8

No. You are not weird. Everyone is different and college is not for everyone. In fact, I hate TV, too. I never watch it.

Answer 9

Who cares? I rock out and get stoned.

Answer 10

your not wierd...your just different.. and different is good! nobody wants to be the totally preppy cheerleader of the most punk/goth person! just be your self!