How do I know if I should be a girl?

Question

...a female soul...in a male body..?

I took Zara Lees COGIATI brain sex test, and I scored 0 (men usually score 0 - 60, and women 60+, but it was only a test)

Answer 1

Check the plumbing. If you were born with an outtie, boy. Innie-girl. This is the one below the belt.

Answer 2

some of the otheer people have already answered how i would normally so i will just say be true to yoour self
here is an on line test that can help you work out you true feelings

it is called the COGIATI test it can suprise you on what makes up gender

http://transsexual.org/TEST0.html

and some other sites that may help you as power is knowage

http://transsexual.org/
http://www.gendercentre.org.au/mtf_links.htm
http://www.tsroadmap.com/

Answer 3

Do you feel extreme discomfort when people relate to you as a male? Do you want to wince when you hear "him" as opposed to "her" in reference to you, and wish they were calling you the other? When you look in the mirror, do you see something that you don't think you should; is it unrecognizable to you? When you wear typical men's clothing, do you feel slightly like you are in drag? How do you feel about your genitals? Are they repulsive to you? Do you ever masturbate or become aroused with them, and if you do, is it only when imagining yourself as a girl or pretending your genitals are female genitals? Can you imagine living your entire life as a woman in the future?

These are just some of the questions that you should ask yourself. Now, in my opinion, these questions shouldn't be requisite- we should be able to flirt with gender and go from one to the other if we want without having to have a maniacal hatred of our bodies. But most gender clinics are going to use these to evaluate if you are a 'true' transsexual.

Ask yourself these questions, read up on the literature out there (check out Kate Bornstein, etc.), and go see a gender dysphoria therapist to talk, if you can.

Good luck!

Answer 4

your heart and soul already told you .(y) do i know this cause your asking your self .your real question is ; is this right am i sick or normal /guess what your you. trust your feelings its not the clothes its a state of being in a skirt and heels u look great RIGHT ! but to be a female you;ll never be so live with you women adore us cause we can relate to a fem side and male plus fem males are very honest enjoy life

Answer 5

It's just something that you know. I saw the difference between the *only two* sexes at 12 and just knew I didn't want to grow up to be a guy. I just knew which side I wanted to be on, even if it didn't match my plumbing.

Answer 6

Hun, I think that you should just follow your heart and if that's what you want to do than go for it as long as you're happy on the inside and out. I hope I helped.

Answer 7

whatever you feel comfortable as, if you like to parade around in a dress and heels thats your gig. if you like cars and fixing stuff, fine. i'm not trying to stereotype, i'm just using that as an example.

Answer 8

well i personally think if you feel like you have the feelings of girl and like you are trapped in a mans body then yea set your expectation's high

Answer 9

Look down. Got a dick? You shouldn't be a girl . You are a man. glory in it.

Answer 10

you should seek professional help to guide you. maybe you are confused? maybe you are not? follow your heart. it never lies to you. go with what you feel is right.