I feel so lost without her, it feels like a slow torturous death, manytimes I just get so depressed I start to binge on alcohol alot. I just can't feel happy anymore. Just because I showed I was jealous at times, is this ground for her to have left me, please help, thanks??
2006-11-04 10:41:13 · 11 answers · asked by r r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
one of the worst things you can show someone you love is jealousy,this is a sign of far deeper problems, insecurity and immaturity are just two, look at the way you are handling this breakup, get some counselling and try and move on, there are other fish in the sea.
2006-11-04 10:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by glasgow girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - We all change and how we were five years ago doesn't mean we will always be the same.
I left my ex because he was a binge drinker.
There must have been more for her to leave because you were jealous - what other behaviors did you show to her? I would think about that before you start another relationship.
2006-11-04 10:45:32 · answer #2 · answered by Claire 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...it seems like he's uncertain a bit of himself. I feel the entire factor along with his household no longer in need of him to get married is a host of bullsh*t. I realise that his household is disenchanted however i dont feel that might make him mad at you. Maybe he felt such as you have been smothering him by way of calling him alot. I understand you on the whole desired to speak to him alot on the grounds that you like him and the whole thing, however men in many instances get scared by way of feeling smothered. Did you men speak approximately marriage or used to be he the only to convey up the field. If you men talked approximately it perhaps he idea approximately it and discovered you men have been relocating to quick or attending to severe. I am no longer sayin you probably did whatever mistaken i'm simply sayin that perhaps he felt like you're making him take the connection to your next step while he isn't capable. I feel you will have to no longer name him for a few days to per week ( he's going to realize you're no longer calling) after which name or textual content him the way you think. If he doesnt reply or name again then he's both pissed off by way of the whole thing or very harassed. Just be sufferer if he loves you he's going to come again!!
2016-09-01 07:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by gombos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are not the ones to ask, since we do not know her. You will have to deal with your grief (which is very real) and get over her. Get some help from a therapist. You won't find the hlep in the bottom of a bottle.
2006-11-04 10:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by world traveler 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How often were you jelous and how jealous were you? i mean, did you flip out when ever she wanted to hang with her friends or what? (My current boyfriend of 2 years is like that and its not working out because everytime he says hes gunna change and let me be me and not worry about who im with he never does and theres more then that...) but there is a chance that thats hy and theres a chance theres more... talk to her and find out what is going threw her mind.
2006-11-04 10:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by *His Princess* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything (inluding love, friendship..etc) has a certain lifetime
which means; will eventually end/break up
so
when time for this is something u face; be realist be strong
and be sure that we all die someday
as anything else does
is this ground for her to have left me?
she would find another reason.. so look to the future
2006-11-04 10:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by come2turkey:) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes I'm sure that's not all there was!!!!!! 5 years she didn't waste that much time,to break up over such a minor detail, better rethink it pal!!!!! Were not all idiots or children on here.......
2006-11-04 10:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry about your luck people really don't change they simply act different when sittuations change something changed in your lives end resualt was her leaving
2006-11-04 10:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your love was mutual but your jealousy was not.
2006-11-04 10:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by tofu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably another guy. If she can't be commited to you then she wasn't worth your time.
2006-11-04 10:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋