2006-11-04 10:20:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Japan
Because American guys are not as "macho" as Japanese guys. Before you die laughing, allow me to explain:
Most American guys treat their wife/girlfriend as an equal. They discuss their feelings, ask for her opinions, make decisions with her. They don't expect her to wait on them hand and foot. They give an explanation if they're out late. They pick up after themselves and help around the house. They take her along when they go out with friends. They take her on dates. They remember her birthday and give her presents. They hold her hand in public.
I'm not saying that Japanese guys don't love their wives, but traditionally they do not do any of things mentioned above. The younger generation is changing, but there is still a sharp dividing line between the sexes. I think Japanese couples tend to act more as equals when they reach retirement age. . . ! Before that the men are just too overworked to be romantic.
Sorry if I stepped on any toes, but it's just my opinion.
2006-11-08 17:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by tiger lou 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you believe that Japanese girls are cuter than Americans, then fine. That's your opinion. The Japanese has healthy food? Americans have healthy food too. Not all Americans are obese, unhealthy people. Look around and you'll see that not everyone is fat and obese. In America, some girls likes to look older, it's a part of society. It's considered the norm by some girls. However, some girls doesn't want to look older. American society and rules are a lot different than Japanese culture. If people says mean things to you, oh well, that's what people do. People can judge other people and be mean to each other. Not everyone have to learn to love each other and be nice. Don't judge Americans too harshly. If you want to go back to Japan so badly, just try talking to them and explain why you don't like America.
2016-03-19 03:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the same as the way some girls want the newest Coach bag or the new LV wallet. Some girls always want what other people don't have so that people will think in awe of them.
Same thing with the guys they're with.
To some girls (and guys too) a guy is kinda like a handbag. It's what defines what sort of person she is. Maybe they think being with a foreign (usually caucasian) would help them look hip / sophisticated / unique from the outside.
When in actuality they're just trying to become like the rest of the crowd.
Think about it, If they believe they will be looked upon as being unique and if being unique = cool then unique does not really = minority.
Does that make sense?
Basically they are trying to look appealing to the masses and masses = not unique.
I could write a paper!!
2006-11-06 04:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why do so many American and Foreign men go crazy for Japanese girls?
2006-11-04 10:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by my2cents 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
I'm married to a very "Average" looking Japanese women. She is special in so many other ways that her looks are not that important. The majority of forgien guys tend to pull in below average girls. I can not even begin to count how many forgien guys I have seen with, To be honest, Ugly Japanese girls. The fact is many Japanese girls don't want a "Gaijin" boyfriend, the whole "cute" Japanese girls go for American guys is a complete myth.
2006-11-06 16:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Some girls in Japan will consider a foreign guy a prize. Simple as that. They have something that others don't. Another factor that is present is if they are young and are learning English, which always go hand in hand. They will want to find love, and they also see an American as somebody who they can talk to. The same goes for Americans. Many Americans seek Japanese girls who speak English.
2006-11-05 04:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by Thardus 5 · 0⤊ 6⤋
Isn't it always a jealousy of other foreigner(national) men?
I think there are also many girls who like Europeans and Asians.
And ppl have a tendency to see and fond of the person with the national power of his/her home country, IMO.
2006-11-04 16:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Joriental 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I believe it goes the other way around. American & foreigners go crazy for Japanese girls!
2006-11-04 15:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by Unhappy 3 · 6⤊ 5⤋
I guess they think America is cool. And white people are beautiful. It is just general sense. Many people do not care about Americans at all, some of them do. Maybe the Hollywood movies are a major influence. Anyway, in any country or race, there are stupid ones who just feel that it is cool to be with people who are different just because of their looks. It is not just in Japan, but also in America ,too. I know many white girls who want to go out with Asian guys just because they are Asians.
2006-11-04 13:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by satosandesu 2 · 3⤊ 5⤋
Maybe for the same reason that SO many white, middle class American girls go crazy for Black guys, or Mexican guys, or Spanish guys, or Brazilian guys, or Asian guys ... you get the point?!
It's the 'novelty' of someone who's DIFFERENT from her, and from her immediate family! I think you're mistaken to believe that they 'idolise' them though ... maybe the girls just find them more 'generous' with their money ... ?!? It's easy to 'love' someone who gives you presents and takes you to fancy places...! It doesn't LAST though.
2006-11-04 12:32:01 · answer #10 · answered by _ 6 · 4⤊ 4⤋