I feel bad when I hear people talk about me and just pretend to like me. Should I care if they like me or not?
2006-11-04 09:15:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No care about you ..... when your happy & confident with you ..the person in the mirror ... others will be attracted to that strong good feeling person ..... If you take the critisim or hair style, wrong color shirt, pants too this, make up too that ... you'll be a wreck..... It's the nature of people in general to pick at others .. sad and judgemental .. but a human trait.
Be bigger and the more mature person. Let the negative go and cling to the positive .... when you show you confidence ... when your happy ... good things will come!
2006-11-04 09:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to feel bad if people say negative things about you, because no doubt, you do the best you can to be a decent person. Should you care if they like you? Well, I guess you should let it register with you - and determine whether the stuff you think they are saying about you is accurate/true. If it is, do you want to continue doing the things they are critical of? Are they a natural part of you? Or, are they things you would like to improve upon? If it's just petty stuff, and it really isn't important, then you should do the best you can to disregard their opinions. The most important thing is that you care if you like you, and that you are first and foremost, the #1 concern in your life. If you feel you are doing the best you can, and are satisfied with your life, you will attract friends of a similar mind, and your relationships will be more friendly. Good luck!
2006-11-04 09:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by amuse4you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to feel this way too as a teenager. I spent years wondering what was wrong with me, and trying so hard to make people like me. Now I am older I have come to realise that I am me. I am who I am, and if people dont like me for that, then that is their problem. I am no longer friends with people like that anymore. So my answer to your question is:
If they dont like you, then dont hang with them. Dont care what other people think. There are others out there that will love you for who you are. Be true to yourself.
2006-11-04 09:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you have friends who understand you and support you should not care. stereotips are terible and i hate them so make a free look to the world and see do you realy are sooooo.....freaky or the world is just still sooooo...stupid. most propably the world is wrong about you and you dont have to worry. go out with the pople who love you and you will feel better. dont worry about a thing coz every little thing is gonna be all righ was it? hakuna matata girl !
2006-11-04 10:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by Pavel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel this way a lot of times. i live in dorm, and everyone in my suite just loves my roommate soooo much. it's always (i'll call her katy) katy this and katy that, and they can't even squeeze out a ******* smile when they see me, if they do see me. i'm a good person, but for some weird reason, they just don't like me.
i try not to give it too much thought, but it does hurt me a lot. it's frustrating, and i'm trying to not care, but it doesn't work so well.
2006-11-04 09:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say screw them ushould find a group of friends who except u 4 u i dont care what people think about me cuz only i know what da truth is
2006-11-04 09:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by <3333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh' be who you are.
no one likes me in school, some people are just nice enough to talk to me, but i know they don't like me all that much. don't worry about it, be who YOU are, dont change for other people, you may only have 1 or 2 freinds or ?, but it's better then changeing so they do like you.
don't feel bad, think of them as selfish jerks who don't like you for who you really are and ignore them(somthing i do).
life goes on, you will meet people who except you. till then, be to yourself or be the ones who like you already.
2006-11-04 09:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by ThemusicalArtist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because not everyone will like you, but not everyone will not like you. Don't let it get to, try to be happy and forget about everything and relax. That's what I would do if people talked crap about me, I ignore it, I won't let it get to me because then that'll make them happy.
2006-11-04 09:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cuz if they don't like then u need to find somebody u does for u
2006-11-04 09:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋