ok for the readers i am bi but i'm dateing a guy now but i like gurls and i want to tell my close friends that but i'm afraid that they'll dislike me and won't ever talk and worse they can either pick a fight with me or even start rumors wat do i do?
2006-11-04 09:07:32 · 9 answers · asked by skittles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first of all if they react negatively, then they aren't your friends. secondly, its none of their business... your sexuality is no ones business but your own.
2006-11-04 09:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by luvlee_lolo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say don't just tell people you are bi, but rather don't hide it, people around you will get the picture soon enough. but if things look serious with this guy do tell him to be sure he doesn't have a big problem with that, he may be the type that would be good with it and you two can involve a third partner from time to time to satisfy your bi tendencies while maintaining your relationship
hope this helps
2006-11-04 17:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by whizbang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are really your friends then they'll understand, they might act a little different after you tell them though. Be ready for the way other people may act or treat you when they find out.
2006-11-04 17:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ash M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't go wrong with honesty. And if you are going to reveal something so personal about yourself...knowing it's a topic for gossip and judgement from some, then you'll need to develop some thicker skin first. Good Luck to you.
2006-11-04 17:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by SoCalBeachGal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your secret and change to strait. The guy may change your mind that partners of the same sex isn't very productive in more ways than one.
2006-11-04 17:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to tell them? You wouldn't feel the need to tell them that you are heterosexual, would you? There is nothing wrong with keeping sexual matters strictly between the two people involved.
2006-11-04 17:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was like that i would try to slip it into a conversation!!Start to talk about sumthying like it and ask any of your friends if they r!! If any of them says yes say well i have sumthing to confess!! i still love boyz but i like the other sex also but PLEASE don't tell anyone!!!! And if they say sumthing bad about you than there not a true,good trustworthy friend!!
2006-11-04 17:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by sara_skipper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and let them be their selves and you'll see what friends are really friends.
2006-11-04 17:11:59 · answer #8 · answered by astellarheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there really your Friends they'll understand
2006-11-04 17:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋