if I am a attractive woman, why cant I find adecent man?

Answer 1

you are to good looking

Answer 2

Maybe because you can't find a man with whom you share similar views on life. Maybe because men percieve you as unapproachable.

Here's my best guess, though: You're asking from the perspective of an "attractive woman." You never mentioned anything about personality or intelligence.

I consider myself a decent man. I dated a girl for a very short time who was nothing short of gorgeous. However, she had no depth of personality, and could not hold an intelligent conversation.

So here's my theory. Attractive people attract attractive people. Intelligent people attract intelligent people. People with strong morals attract other people with strong morals. Likewise, decent people attract decent people.

Maybe you should look for a guy with whom you have more in common.

Or maybe you're just not looking in the right place.

Answer 3

I'm sure you are an attractive woman, and that's part of your problem. Many attractive women are still insecure about their appeal to men. A certain kind of man zeros in on this, consciously or unconsciously, and takes advantage of such women. Because a woman who is attractive, and appealing, is unsure of this fact, this type of man will treat her like she expects to be treated, and that's not well. Realize that regardless of how attractive you are, you have every right to be treated well and find within yourself the inner beauty that is indubitably yours. Then no one can mess with that and you will be secure in yourself. I've known too many beautiful women who fit this description, and while I befriended them, only they could provide the assurance that they were truly very appealing.

Answer 4

trust me its takes more than attraction to get a decent man....a real decent guy doesnt care that much about pure looks..I am decent guy but i get easily turned off about any girl who is loose..for ex I know a beautifull girl in my old office who has been with all the wrong ones..so now she is so famous that forget taking her seriously a decent guy wont even look at her...plus I must admit ....no decent guy wants to be around a $lut. I could be wrong your reasons could be different ...it could be u like men who treat you wrong or are just there to have fun.....probably you find decent guys boring....or probably decent guys dont perceive you as a friendly or probably they think of you as too available ....its hard to say but what I wrote was the conventioanl wisdom from my perception.

Answer 5

When looking for a decent woman to settle down with, the outside looks are only part of the equation.

Answer 6

Beauty is usually a magnet for guys wanting trophy girl friends or trophy wives. This means you are having to sift through more garbage before you find a treasure.

Answer 7

Well your screen name is bimbosbimbo do you really think that a decent man wants to go out with a bimbo , or a beautiful, intelligent woman? Is being a bimbo really serving your life?

Answer 8

Because you probably have a certain perception of the man you want --- and the two are likely incompatible. Broaden your horizons a bit, and you will surely find the guy for you.

Answer 9

what you NEED to do is sit down and write down what you look for in a man now or in the past..
study it..and then CHANGE your values of what you want in a man..and change them for good..do not go back to the old ways.
and change how you act around guys all together..no matter what do it..
change the places you hang out at, to maybe better places in a nicer neighborhood...
good luck
smile

Answer 10

Maybe it's because you think only being attractive is all that is necessary to attract a decent man...shallow men, yeah...decent men, not so much.

Answer 11

Attractive women are viewed as unapproachable by most men, so only the most egotistical men will hit on you.