i am male, 28 y/o. professional. live alone, have parents, not many friends. have had 3 g/f in total, 2 yrs. with each one. no kids. intellectual and artistic... etc. What should i do to stop feeling that?
2006-11-04 08:23:49 · 10 answers · asked by gabrielle 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i live in a 10 million people city. .. i do a lot of things, eg: I am pretty skilled at dancing.and am involved in various group activities... but i often feel that i only match partly in each of the groups... that makes me feel real sad.
thank you for the replies.
2006-11-04 12:25:15 · update #1
30 yr old man living w/ roommate-I like to play card games and even though it sounds like what my grandparents used to do, it seems that card parties are cheap, entertaining, and lots of social fun. I don't know how to recruit players though since I am an unsociable person with no skills at addressing strangers. I hope you get some good answers here because I need to know how to put this idea together..... sad part is I live in a city of 3 million people, surely I could manage 4-8 people to play spades w/o gambling or drinking every once a week or once a month.... Everyone bring a snack or a soda or somthing..... blah. gl with these answers.
2006-11-04 08:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and hunt them down-a winner never quits and a quitter never wins. Shape up- Now here are the instructions for tonight. Haircut,clothes shopping,good cologne,shoe shopping,hot shower ,mission #1 be the sharped dressed man-must listen to the song by zz top. Mission # 2 -research where to go-city seach your area-clubs..etc Mision #3 Get to the place you researched but have a plan B,C,D.Mission #4 Approach a fine looking female and try to get a phone#Mission # 5 Go home alone,spank the monkey and keep trying.
2006-11-04 16:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by super stud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something to fight for, or about. I don't mean literally fight(although if you wanted to join the military, that would be a great option) but rather something you can claim a stance in, such as politics...and get active! Not only will you become to captivated by the good fight you're fighting to even think about loneliness, but you're might run into a special someone who shares the same views as you!
2006-11-04 16:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a gym. Take turns using machines with ladies who seem nice. Take a cooking class (LOTS of women in there). Take a nighttime enrichment course, like writing or a foreign language. Go to Bath and Body works and ask some women to help you find something for your Mom.
2006-11-04 16:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and meet people. I feel the same way. My boyfriend of 4 years is in the service and got sent over seas for a while and i had to go out and meet people because when he is home he is all i need
2006-11-04 16:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by carolianian85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step outside of your box. Take a risk. Try something new. Try something daring. Overcome a fear. Make a list of "Life Goals", and then get to it.
2006-11-04 16:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEEN THERE GUY. IN MY DAY I WENT TO CLUBS TO SATISFY MYSELF. THIS DAY AND AGE IT'S DIFFRENT. YOU HAVE TO BE SO CAREFUL. BELIVE IT OR NOT TRY THE GROCERY STORE, OR WAL-MART LATE AT NITE. WHEN YOU SEE THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE ASK HER ABOUT SOMETHING. JUST WHATEVER YOUR AROUND. FRUITS, CLOTHES ETC. STRIKE UP A CONVERSATION. BUT DON'T BE TO FOREWARD. BE KIND, WHITTY, SMILE ALOT. BUT BE YOURSELF. REMEMBER FIRST IMPRESSIONS ARE USUALLY WHAT MAKES THE RELATIONSHIPS WORK..... HAVE FUN...
2006-11-04 16:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by hystericaly_kinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on yourself. Happiness is a choice in most cases.
2006-11-04 16:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by Crossroads Keeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
type in I AM LONLEY into your search engine and it will take u to a site where theres loads of lonely people
2006-11-04 16:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
use the phone, IM, or email
2006-11-04 16:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by Sunset :]] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋