i turned to my right and witnessed my good friend's boyfriend. he was walking and embracing another woman. should i tell my friend what i saw or not. a part of me want to since weve been friends for a long time. another part of me thinks not (in fear of losing my friendship). should i tell her?
2006-11-04 08:17:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
wouldnt u want her to tell u .........yes tell her
2006-11-04 08:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be a perfectly good explanation for what you saw. Maybe it was a long lost childhood friend, a sister, a cousin, a co worker with happy news, or regardless of what you thought you saw, an innocent hug. The thing is, it is really none of your business. If you truly can't forget what you saw, ask HIM for an explanation and if he is willing to give you one, believe him. He will know he has a second chance if he was up to no good and he will know to be more careful if he wasn't in case some one else were to see what may be that perfect innocent hug. The fact remains you were not actually there, and only witnessed this embrace so you really do not know what it was all about. Why upset your friend with that speculative sighting? It could possibly end your friendship with her over what could be nothing at all. I suggest you try to just forget it about it!
2006-11-04 16:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by AKA FrogButt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront the boyfriend about it, to see it if was true. state the time and place you witnessed him doing so, and make him fess up or break up with you friend. if he doesn't oblige, then you should tell your friend. this is a sticky issue that needs to be handled delicately, so you MUST be sure that what you saw was an intimate embrace and not just two friends walking arm and arm. if you jump to conclusions, and you are the least bit wrong, you will jeopardize a good friendship.
2006-11-04 16:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by mightymax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you saw was them embracing then no, i wouldn't say anything to your friend. It could have been a relative, a good friend or a co-worker. Embracing doesn't mean cheating. If you have the courage, confront the guy to what you saw. If he appears uncomfortable, call him on it...if he isn't and explains himself maybe it was all innocent and nothing to worry about. I hope it's the latter, good luck.
2006-11-04 16:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by aweety69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you 100% sure you still could be wrong...better to keep quiet than to lose a good friend...she will find out sooner or later if he is messing around...in the mean time keep an eye on him...
2006-11-04 16:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by Dirtydog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree i would tell her but maybe just mention it so she can take the next step and bring up to her boyfriend. say like this you know i was comming home and i saw your bf(put his name) and he was walking with a girl is that his friend. that way you are not actually accusin him of anything but you do look like you are looking out for her. She can not get mad bc you did not say your bf is cheating.
good luck
2006-11-04 16:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know who that other woman was? It might have been a relative or a co-worker and the hug completely innocent. Until you know what you're talking about, don't talk. Mind your own business.
2006-11-04 16:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by Emm 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, the proper thing to do, as a friend is to let her know what you saw.
2006-11-04 16:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the guy first. ask him whats going on and that if it's something with another girl (because it could have been an old friend or cousin who knows) Tell him that he has to tell your friend or you will.
2006-11-04 16:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by kooimanlora 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you considered that it may have been his sister, cousin, aunt, or friend from college? More than often, this tends to be the case, so I would beware before any action is taken.
2006-11-04 16:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell her or else when she finds out herself that he's been cheating on her whe will be hurt a lot worse.
2006-11-04 16:20:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋