a) a very satisfying but purely platonic (absolutely no sex involved) relationship in which you love and care about each other very deeply, OR
b) a sexual relationship which allows you to use each other for pleasure when mutually convenient but there's no commitment and not a lot of love and care the rest of the time?
Please state in your answer whether you're a man or a woman.
2006-11-04 08:07:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WELL I AM A MAN AND FROM MY POINT OF VIEW,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, A IS THE BEST ONE.
B IS LIKE WAM BANG THANK YOU MAAM.
WITH MY GIRL, IT IS A ALL THE WAY BECAUSE THERE IS LOVE, REAL LOVE THAT YOU JUST CARE ABOUT THIS GIRL OR PERSON ONLY AND THAT CARE ABOUT HER TRULLY ALOT TO THE POINT YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED AND SAY THAT DESPITE OF ALL THE LADIES IN THE WORLD, I AM FOR ONE LADY AND THAT IS MY GIRL WHO I LOVE WITH ALL MY HEART AND WAITING TO HAVE SEX WITH HER IN MARRIAGE IS NOT A BAD THING,
IT'S THE VERY BEST THING YOU CAN DO!!!!!
2006-11-04 08:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by ALEX ROCKS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(c) You should have another choice as (c) which will have major elements from your choices (a) and (b) in my anwer (c) I do not want to see a word call "use" as you described in (b) ... well ... put it this way ... this is what I am looking for ... will my dream come through? ... yep ...
(a) a very satisfying but purely platonic (absolutely no sex involved) relationship in which you love and care about each other very deeply, OR
(b) a sexual relationship which allows you to use each other for pleasure when mutually convenient but there's no commitment and not a lot of love and care the rest of the time?
2006-11-04 17:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Vig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the sound of both of these relationships...I take it though that they would be with 2 different people...Couldnt actualy imagine them both complimenting each other very well if you tried this with the same person. Relationship A is nice though and as long as it satisfies both parties needs then it would work....Relationship B seems very casual and on the understanding that there is no commitment its just pure lust (yummy) but will only work as long as its what both parties want.But it would also be very empty and only satisfy the flesh and will leave the soul searching for more.Eventualy you will want relationship A with B. Relationship A is a loving and caring friendship...or maybe companionship...I think tho if I was to choose I would choose relationship A .
2006-11-04 16:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by cinders 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) everytime. Sex is great but you need more than that to form a relationship. I don't want to get all deep and meaningful but trust is far more important in life than an hour in the sack. You can buy sex but you can't buy mutual respect and the reassurance you get from someone who genuinely loves you for who you are.
2006-11-04 16:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by Emerelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm female, 18 yrs
Definately A, as I think it'll be so much more emotinally satisfying. You can use most people for sex and if really stuck hire a prostitute but it hard to find someone you love completely who also loves you back.
2006-11-04 16:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman and I choose A. How you even begin to enjoy a relationship when you are using each other for pleasure? The pleasure fades...the friendship and love is for eternity.
2006-11-04 16:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
female. and i choose a. however b isnt a relationship, its called being a sex buddy. it is possible to have relationship a and have satisfying sex. i know as i'm currently doing it! not having sex right now obviously but you know what i mean. but no one should settle for b. i've done so before and it really screws with your self esteem.
2006-11-04 18:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is, if you have the relationship described in "a" then it's only natural that, if you're single, you'll begin to want to take things further. Isn't it called falling in love????
2006-11-04 16:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by THE BULB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im female why cant you have loving and caring relationship which allows you to pleasure each other and use each other in a good way mmmmmmmmm
2006-11-04 16:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is b...(woman). I was always involved in relationships and I was always so considered and caring but is not worth it.
2006-11-04 16:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by Vero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋