How do I stop being annoying?

Question

ok so i thought i was so cool when school began. i got along with everyone and absolutely EVERYONE was my friend. then like a month or 2 later people started telling me i am annoying. i didnt even know what i did. was it my personalilty? did i laugh too much? was i just plain old bitchy? IDK!! what was i doing so wrong? then this guy tells me that i was like most annoying girl and that all of the guys think im annoying. myb even the kid i like. this made me sad. i almost cried in class. was i really that bad? someone give me tips on how to stop being annoying plzzz

Answer 1

You sound like my son. He asked me the other day how he could stop being so annoying! I personally don't think he is, but sometimes he doesn't give people enough 'space'. Just pull back from these people and give them a clear path. You don't want to be with people who say things like that. Find your own friends who like you for who you are. If there is something particular you know they find annoying then work on stopping that. Be genuinely friendly and nice. People can't help being attracted to those qualities.

God bless.

Answer 2

Well if you can't find out what you are doing wrong, ask the people who called you annoying. If they tell you what you are doing to be annoying, try stopping that. They might even be jealous that you are getting all the friends and they aren't.

Answer 3

First I think you have to think carefully if you have done something that your friends don't like. If you can't remember things that you have done wrongly, ask your friends what you have done wrong. As a true friend they will tell you the truth but you must not be mad at them otherwise people will never tell you the truth in future.
If they refuse to tell you then I believe they are jealous of you having the limelight of all the friends. So you can simply ignored them

Answer 4

without examples of whats going on it's very hard to help you however i have been accused of the same thing and my advice would be that which i received all the time and hated every time i heard it but now that im grown it has been invaluable to me. here it is "STOP and THINK before you speak or act!" think about things before you engage your tongue how will what I'm thing be taken or affect how people think of me if i say whats on my mind, how will my actions affect other peoples opinion of me how will my actions affect other people will my actions affect me adversely
prior planing prevents pi*s poor performance

Good luck

Answer 5

You said it yourself, you thought you were cool.
Nothing more annoying than someone who thinks they're cool.
Just be yourself, and don't worry about being cool, or who thinks what about you. Any one who can't deal with it isn't worth worrying about. You are an intelligent young woman who should not even be worried about what other people think about you.
Any guy would be lucky to have you as a friend or GF, so don't let their whining get to you. If you are honestly being yourself and they don't appreciate it, then they don't deserve to hang out with you.

Answer 6

Ask the people who's calling you annoying to explain to you what did you do or still do to be considered like that. Then, fix it.

Answer 7

ask the people that are telling you that you're annoying, what is so annoying about you. then try to change those things a little. :)
i have an annoying friend also but i'm helping her change little by little. :)

Answer 8

Listen more and talk less. Think of all the things that annoying girls do...........and then stop doing them. and take time to think before you speak. don't just talk to hear noise. talk when you have something to SAY.

Answer 9

omg! that EXACT same thing happened to me! no lie! I listened more i guess and i talked less and belive it or not i evan changed my laugh. ino it sucks but every thing will get better eventually.

Answer 10

the first step is admitting it
second ... find out how your being anoying and stop doin that or change the way you do it

xx