ok. my boyfriend Eric is in this juvie/alternative school thing. and ive dated him for so long and i KNOW for a fact that i love him (so no questions about that please!) now my problem started when he got picked up by the police (which was like 3 days ago). i found "comfort" to one of his really good friends named Steven. Steven told me that he liked me as more than a friend for a long long time. I think i kinda like him too. But i dont think i can do that to Eric (my real boyfriend)! im gonna talk to Eric's best friend, JC about this. But i cant until he comes back on Wednesday. so until then, im askin for yall's help!
2006-11-04 07:57:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well, if you really "love" Eric, you wouldn't be saying you "kinda like" Steven. Right? You might not know it yet, but deep down you have doubts about your relationship with Eric. I think you're in it just because of the time you have put into this relationship. Plus if eric has a history, and if he ever finds out you found "comfort" in Steven, there is no telling what he would do? Run from both guys. Because if they are buddies, they are more than buddies, they could be partners in crime, and Steven just catches more breaks. Run while the getting is good. Because if you convince yourself that you love/like Eric/Steven and don't leave now and handle it with your head, you will be in doomed relationships for the rest of your life, because you won't know when to leave, and you will try to stick it out. Listen to your head and not your heart, you will regret it for years to come. I am 39 and I know what I am talking about. I still regret things I did when I was 17. Good Luck.
2006-11-04 09:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by lizziesmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, you donot love him. You are infatuated with him. He is in a juvenille home for crying out loud. Please, stop and think of what kind of person he could become. Why even consider his friend? If you want to act like an adult then be one. Don't get yourself into these situations(that can make you look like a whore and them Gods). I say leave them both alone nd aim for a higher caliber of boys. Maybe boys who are going to college one day. Honestly, you should just enjoy being young and SLOW DOWN. Good Luck
2006-11-04 12:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him he is no good, and you are too young to get seriously involved with any body like that, i would go with steven and hang out with him for awhile, see what happends
2006-11-04 08:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by trudycaulfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋