how come soe girls feel pain when they have sex and why will it hurt if its an extra large?

Answer 1

Not relaxed, not lubricated, could have polyps or scar tissue (even from being in gymnastics) in the vaginal canal, you could have an infection of sorts, could be too long, could be too thick, could be crooked, you could be too small.

Every one's body is different, men and women, and some just don't combine.

I myself have never been able to enjoy woman on top, with anyone, must be the tilt of my uterus or some other thing because it always feels like it is hitting something it just isn't supposed to..doesn't really hurt, but doesn't feel good.

OHH!! And don't use "lotion" use a lubricant made for the region...lotions and oils can cause irritation and infection, which will DEFINITLEY cause pain.

Answer 2

It could any number of things..

It could be that you are too tight
It could be he is too big for you meaning too long

or you are not relaxed when having sex...
or your partner is not giving you oral sex, which makes a woman really wet and when he goes inside you..it won't hurt..it will slide..

Answer 3

sure ladies do think mild affliction.... but when the penis is inserted slowly it does not harm a lot... however be definite as to deliver the woman correct foreplay earlier than intercourse because it reduces the affliction and in addition see that she is lubricated ample earlier than you'll insert :) desire this is helping...

Answer 4

the pain probably due to the inexperience of your partner and it would need to be pretty big or you pretty dry to hurt, urban legends doing the rounds again is all

Answer 5

Try to lubricate it with lotion

Answer 6

it because he is to rough on her she should tell him to take it slow in give him my lube on his penis