2006-11-04 06:53:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't listen to HazelEyes, she must be what happens to women who don't get sex. You can't tell me she does not sound bitter.
Basically your husband is saying to hell with your happiness, and that he does not care about your feelings. Now, that just is not right. He should want to make you happy just like you want to make him happy. If he is telling you that he will not even put forth an effort to make you happy, then it is time to move on..
I hate to say it but it is true.
DO NOT GO THROUGH LIFE MISERABLE
2006-11-04 09:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ant O 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely. If you are doing everything that a woman should do, then I don't see where you'd have the energy for much sex anyway. If you are frustrated, cook supper, clean and organized the house, volunteer to help the less fortunate, help the kids with school work, do some yard work, give the dog a bath, water the plants, host some parties, so on and so on........ forget about sex. It's stupid anyway. If he's not in the mood, get your self off (should take less than 5 mins) and get back to life.
2006-11-04 06:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously, he has a problem. It might be disenchantment, another woman, medical, working too hard, or any of a number of others. You have to figure out what it is because he may not know. If it's disenchantment, try changing your appearance. Consider a wig, a different hairdo, different clothes, new perfume, etc. Make a date with him at a motel and wear something nice. :-)
If none of that helps, try kinky. Buy some toys and let him use them. Do NOT bring in other people. Once that door is opened, you can't close it.
2006-11-04 07:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by John Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd be thrilled! My husband is trying all the time and I never want to. But when I do I'd rather use a vibrator because its quicker and I use less energy. I don't have time for sex with having kids around constantly!
2006-11-04 07:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by LKJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did you not before marrige? Ask and talk to him about what has changed. Tell him what you want and what you would like him to do. Find out why he does not want sex. This is something that can be worked out unless he is giving it to somone else. Most of the time with men if not another girl it is to overworked, stress or to many pain killers/muscle relaxers.
2006-11-04 07:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your beliefs but this is in direct contridiction to the Bible & the marriage vow. If it is not a physical problem & he is refusing you this then he needs phsychological help.
Sexual intimacy is what sets the marriage relationship apart from every other relationship. If he does not want to get help, it is grounds for divorce.
Only you can answer the question as to whether you should live your life, this way.
2006-11-04 06:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by weddrev 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your husband is either cheating on you or he's gay!! What man doesn't want sex? Girl, if I were you I would start my own investigation. There's something fishy going on!! I suggest you check it out!!! Good luck!!!
2006-11-04 07:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by M & M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you deserve to f**k and enjoy yourself. Go out and find another well hung stud to f**k and have a good time and tell that selfish husband of yours that he can clean you up after your stud is finished with you.
2006-11-04 07:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by unionjack07 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your husband is odd, most men cannot say no once you get them going, so maybe try being more seductive.
2006-11-04 06:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by hahaha 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Buy some sexy undies and a porn mag/movie. If that doesn't work get yourself a sex aid.
2006-11-04 06:55:02 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋