girls should realize that is not all handsome guys that are worth going into realtionship too they should consider ungly guys too good looks are just looks nothing much so somebody explain to me.
2006-11-04 06:51:49 · 4 answers · asked by marvellousdiva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's about maturity. when you are young sometimes you only see what is physically beautiful and don't take the time to get to know anything beyond that. girls who do this tend to make huge mistakes in picking a partner that is truly compatible for them. i'm 31 years old and i can tell you those girls would dying to meet a nice sincere guy after they've been played with and heartbroken by the more physically disireable guy. most times it's the guy no one gives a chance who is the most respectful, honest and sincere who in turns becomes the more attractive person because of this-young girls don't get it until they've been burned.
2006-11-05 11:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by REALADY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just girls. Boys are the same way (if not worse), saying they don't like a girl because she has crooked teeth or big ears or an extra pound someplace. Most young people are pretty superficial in who attracts them and oblivious to how much this hurts the rejected person.
It may not be much consolation, but when you are a little older you will find people who are less shallow and judge you by who you are, not just how you look. In the meantime work at becoming an interesting person. Then when the girls mature a bit they will see how much you have going for you, and they will prefer you to some handsome dude who has always depended on his looks to get him friends and never developed a real personality.
PS Be sure you look beyond the most beautiful and popular girls. You may find a terrific female who has been unfairly rejected the same way you have been and will be less likely to judge on looks alone. If you will only look at a girl with a spectacular exterior, then you are like the girls who judge you on appearance alone. There's a great girl somewhere waiting for you to find her.
2006-11-04 15:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to look around more intensively because not all girls are attracted to only boys that are physically good looking. Also, good looks may get you started with some girls but it won't go very far if the guy is not treating the girl well. I know from my own experiences in life, meeting physically good looking people (men as well as woman) and once I got to know them, got turned off because they were not nice people and visa versa.
Attraction can be many different things to different people. I believe the older you get and your peer group gets, those different aspects come more into play. If you are a nice guy and treat people well, if you have confidence in yourself but remain humble towards others, you will eventually find the right girl who will love you for the right reasons. No one stays young forever and most often beauty fades, in the long run, you want someone to love you for who you are and how you treat them.
2006-11-04 15:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lucid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls are just like that, some think that they need a spiffy hot guy just to make them happy. So may think of it as a reward for something. Some girls are just like some guys, needing a hot partner next to them at night, and being happy about looks is all they care about.
2006-11-04 15:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋