i said that i cry alot and i sleep alot well i cant talk to my mom because she wants me out her house my dad is already gone i have a sister that thinks she is everything and my mom treats her likes she is the oldest i have a boyfriend that was locked up at 10 years old and had six years and he keeps questioning our relationship and i know hes hiding stuff about his past and all i think sleep and drink is tears and i write poetry ipray everything i tried suicide my mom and i became distant after the mental treatments and i have nothing else to do or live for seriously my life is one big teardrop after another and im only 16 years old
2006-11-04 06:44:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Please go to your church, even if you are not a member and talk to the pastor, priest whatever.
You need some spiritual guidance and you need to have your bruised soul and spirit healed.
I think if you hang around with someone with a questionable past, you can get drawn down into his stuff... You are better off without a boyfriend at this point in your life.
If your mother wants you gone, I wonder what happened to bring her to this point. Mothers defend their children to the death in most cases. What has happened?????
If you are at a point of trying suicide, it tells me you are looking for attention and recognition that you are not getting . There is a sibling rivalry between you and your sister... that is a total other thing that needs to be worked on.
MY concern would be to get my mental health back to normal. You need help from people who will ask nothing of you other than your faith. It doesn't cost anything to reach out ,even if you are not a religious person, it doesn't matter. Your life is far too important to throw away and so are you. Whether you or your mom get along is not the problem at hand.
If she wants you out, you need to go to social assistance and get a place for you to stay..If you are under 16 you are a minor, perhaps a foster family could take you or an aunt. Someone who is strong, and can handle what is going on with you in your life and someone who won't take any guff from you.... You need love and support and you need to get real. Step up and begin your transformation, there is so much for you to do in your life, take hold and take the first step by getting help.....Poetry is a wonderful way to express your feelings, but in this case you need a good person to talk to ....
2006-11-04 07:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek out some help and don't stop looking.
Suicide is not the answer and to be so young and troubled is horrible. Life is what you make of it and you have to believe that god has something great instore for you. It is up to you to keep fighting and keep searching for it and the rewards will be great.
Trust me life does get better even if it seems to be standing still and I know at your age it does get long and lonely.
Get out and enjoy life, meet people that share your interests, find a part time job (great way of meeting people), school sports etc. There are endless possibilities but you have to seek them and when you've got it together you can say " I did great despite the fact my Mother neglected my needs"
As for your boyfriend if he can not be there for you and help you through this, he's not worth it. Once you get it together you'll find someone great. Good luck
2006-11-04 15:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a counselor...you should try to find things that make you happy...and distance yourself from the things that make you unhappy...16 is a pretty young age and things can be tough so do what makes you happy and if you are serious about suicide then you need to get help.....even talking to a teacher or a doctor can help...take care and be happy...hope this helps
2006-11-04 14:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by freezerburn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET SOME PROFESSIONAL HELP
2006-11-04 14:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋