Should I get fake boobs or stuff my bra?

Question

I am 14, and I'm TOTALLY flat chested. Seriously, there is nothing there. I even had my period already! (I got it when I was 13) Should I just take the bullying about my body and keep walking around with no boobs, or should I get fake ones? If you think I should, then should I get fake ones or et a bra and stuff it?

Answer 1

My very best friend was flat until she was 19, and then when she blossomed she changed completely within three months. She not only grew boobs, but hips as well, AND grew taller.

Some people are just like that. You will eventually take on your adult shape. In the meantime, celebrate who you are now. And remember, there is no going back once the change is done.

My best friend now has to watch everything she eats, whereas before she could eat anything without gaining weight. And she has to shop very carefully for bras that fit well (she has broad shoulders for a girl, and 36C breasts) where before she just threw on a cami and never worried about it.

Answer 2

Get a padded bra but don't get fake boobs or stuff your bra. All people are made different ways and we as individuals need to respect that. I mean look at Paris Hilton, not the best role model in most cases, but she is very flat chest and she opted out of a boob job. She's comfortable in her own skin and you should be too. DOn't let other people change you.

Answer 3

Stuffing your bra is asking for an embarrassing moment when you're walking down your school's hall, trailing cotton balls or Kleenex or whatever you used to stuff your bra.

Get a Victoria's Secret Miracle Bra or a Fredericks of Hollywood Extreme bra..... I used those until I got surgery when I was 21. And having boobs after surgery isn't perfect, you know... I'm thin so there wasn't much to support the implants, so they've "bottomed out" twice, and they're so heavy, I have to wear a bra 24/7, even when sleeping, otherwise they HURT!

You're too young for surgery, but if it really bothers you and you want more info, check out:
http://www.breastimplants4you.com/

Good luck! It's not easy being small chested, but it's not easy being heavy chested either, keep that in mind.

Answer 4

DONT stuff your bra.
bad idea.
weve all been there though.
im 19, and really flat chested too.
there are some good things about being small though!
no back problems, you dont need to worry about boys liking you for your body, and i dont have to wear a bra... and i love it!
i layer 2 tanktops sometimes (if its white) but no one can tell and i am much more comfortable.
at 14, you still have a few more years of growning honey, so dont worry about it.
if it really bothers you, wait until you are at least 18 and then get implants.
but for now, learn to be comfortable with who you are.
even if you are small, work it like your not... ya know?
we all have things that we want to change about ourselves, but until that day comes... enjoy life and be self confident.

Answer 5

first off, your not going to get a boob job at that age anyways.. they will not let you.. Second off, i got my period when i was 12.. my boobs were a small b, and now they are a small d. im 22. So... there is plenty of hope for you... Not to mention, one day you will completely grow up and hopfully love yourself for the way you are... You were born with a small chest to maybe conquer the self consious self and the hell this world has come to in thinking boobs are everything... Dont stuff your bra, that could just lead to complete embarassment... Plus, if you dont have big boobs, you wont have to worry about gravity.. So if a girl who has a big chest teases you for your small boobs.. just tell them "well mine wont be hanging to my knees when im old" That should get them to shut up.. Good luck, and love yourself ♥

Answer 6

Everyone is different and each of us mature mentally and physically in their own time span. I had 2 daughters one was flat as a pancake until she had her first baby and the younger one was fully developed as soon as she reached puberty. So be patient and don't think about it so much. There was an excellent show of the Cosbys that dealt with same issue and it was informative as well as cute, so if you can catch that re-run some where.

Answer 7

offering that the boobs weren't the source of allure interior the 1st place, i think of i'd understand. in case you like her and care approximately her do no longer strengthen the stereotype that men are in basic terms attracted to a girl's chest. Plus, that's no longer that uncommon. Victoria's secret made thousands and thousands off of insecure women persons. Ever heard of the water bra? stable success.

Answer 8

hunni, don't worry.. I'm 14...I've had my period since I was eleven and I still aint got no boobs.. but I wear water bras... which help alot.. sure u'll still be small but u'll be a little bit bigger.. oh and just dont go out and buy u one tonite and wear it to school monday.. cuz they'll know trust me.. just wait untill u have like 5 days or so off from school.. maybe thanksgiving break.. or christmas break.. then they wont think nuthin of it.. but trust me if u stuff... u will be made fun of alot more.. and plus whatever u stuff with could fall out.. or be revealed when ur bent over and that would be totally humiliating now wouldn't it?

Answer 9

I would stick it out until I was at least 18 sweetheart. You might change your mind and it will be too late. plus, you are just too young and you should love your body flaws and all. a womans body is a beautiful thing no matter what your breast size, and on top of all of that, boob jobs are cheesy and fake. Hope this helps.

Answer 10

At 14 you really shouldn't be thinking about your breasts. You should be happy with your body. Let the kids say what they want. It you just get a bra and stuff it. it will look way obvious that you did.
Just wait awhile. Everyone gets them eventually. It just takes a little longer for some girls.