is it normal or is he just checking up on me? If i am not home he wants to know why and gets upset too.
2006-11-04 06:41:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OOowww that's not good,teel him you need your time dear,i'm sorry you married a guy like that,you asshould know before you got married,if he gives you your space,how about if you want to go out with your friends???is he going to say that hey're h***es and you shoudn't go out with them???you got to have your space privacy,and that does not mean that youre going to have secrets from him but just your intimate time or on this case space to breathe
2006-11-04 06:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by Naomi w 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband usually calls me everyday, or I call him. It's normal for us. We aren't really checking up on each other, more like saying hi how is your day. You might be able to prevent him getting upset if you give him a quick call saying hey I'm going out for a bit, that way he will know that you are not home. Not that he needs to know your every move, but it might make him feel better if he knows you won't be there when he calls. I usually do that for my husband just as a little courtesy call so he will know where me and the kids areso he won't have to worry if he comes home early or something like that.
2006-11-04 14:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know a lot of woman would be happy that there husbands call them every day from work. The getting upset when your not home is no normal. I would try talking to him. communication is most important in a relationship.
2006-11-04 14:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by JENNIFER W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband does that same thing and I hate it. No it's not sweet people they are checking up and it's awful when you have to explain that you were out for and or what took so long or you know that I was going to call. I started going to see his Mom on some days so that I could make sure that I told her that he was questioning me and you know after a couple of times of her telling him to chill out has work some what. You know in-laws can be a pain but on something like this or to get your way sometimes it's great they are still a bit of Mama boys still.
2006-11-04 18:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by smallsassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a little jealous. My wife wants me to call her a time or two a day. If you are just a house wife explain that you need to get out of the house too. Even just to go see some girl friends or do the grocery shopping while he is at work. You ned time out of the house that to much time makes it like a jail cell. Talk and fix this problem. It helps if the two know each others friends. My wife likes to know who's house I am visiting. Or who I am meeting for lunch.
2006-11-04 14:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you possibly giving him a reason to be concerned or jealous? Calling you daily to say hello is very thoughtful but if you get the third degree also then he has some suspicion in his mind. Address the issue today, don't wait, get in out in the open and hopefully he will be able to talk to you. Men usually keep everything inside and refuse to discuss it until a much later time and its almost too late. Maybe he was betrayed long ago before you. Please don't wait, talk to him let him know how it makes you feel.
2006-11-04 14:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by Gettcha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he calling because he misses you or is he calling to make sure you're not doing anything without him? If he gets upset if you're not home, he's being controlling. Watch out!
P.S. Controlling men are that way for a reason. He may be cheating on you and he's paranoid that you will do the same.
2006-11-04 14:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he might be a tad insecure. My husband is the same way he calls on his way to work, from work and on his way home I asked him one time when he got upset because I was busy and couldn't talk what his deal was and he didn't realize he was reacting the way he did. His ex wife had cheated on him and the wounds are still there 10 years later so just talk to him and see what is up.
2006-11-04 14:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by Martha S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess that would depend on if he did it prior to the time you've had an issue (or concern) with it. It's normal for me & my boyfreind to call eachother every day on lunch. Even if it's just to say I love you. Maybe he feels insecure about something. Did you do something for him to mistrust you. It could be several things but these are the first ones I think of.
2006-11-04 14:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by tygernside 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of the time a guy will call to talk say hi ask how your day is going and so on but if he gets mad when you don't answer it could be that he doesn't trust you, likes controlling you, and jealousy. just to list a few of the reasons but most of all he probably loves you alot and want's to here your voice I do this with my wife and she doe's it with me he probably misses you and when he get bored at work he calls you because you cheer him up.
2006-11-04 14:47:10 · answer #10 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm, First I'd of thought that it was sweet and is because he is thinking of you but when you added that if you are not home and he gets upset too then I'd have to say that it seems perhaps he has some insecurity issues. This can be a tuffy.
2006-11-04 14:45:04 · answer #11 · answered by opinionative_1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋