I hate these dumb sex questions too, but I really want some honest answers from people. For me, sex is often uncomfortable/painful. I have only ever been with my current boyfriend, so it doesn't have to do with any past experience. Also, it doesn't have to do with his size - he is by no means small, but he isn't huge, he's average.
I find that the only position I feel comfort with is missionary. I know it sounds dreadfully boring, but going on top hurts too much. It feels like the weight of my body is all hitting him, and it's too much pressure.
Does anyone have any suggestions? I feel like I'm boring in bed because other positions aren't comfortable enough.
2006-11-04 06:41:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You may not like it banging against your cervix. Try being on top but use your knees to keep you a little higher than his waist. Go up and down just not all the way down. Also if you lean forward so your head is either on the side of his head or close enough to kiss him that will take off the pressure. I love sex but for me being straite up and down on top of him hurts me too. Even leaning back alittle helps. Or put him all the way in and feel around if there is a spot where the pressure isn't hurting then just move up and down so his penis only hits that spot. Spooning is a good position too to prevent him entering all the way. Doggy Style is the worst one if your sensitive inside. Try him standing on the floor and you on the edge of the bed and place a pillow against your butt so when he trusts it can't go all the way in. If it is a sharp pain rather than a dull cramping pain than you might want to mention this to your gyno. It bothered me to be on top for a long time did you just start having sex or has it been like a year or longer?
2006-11-04 07:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, what's worse if you are underage. Like the movie 8 Mile. I was 15 when I saw that movie for the first time. And my mom wanted to fast forward that scene with rapper Eminem and actress Brittany Murphy. At school, one of my friends who was a grade above me said the sex scene with them made her sick. Another scene was characters Jack and Rose in Titantic played by Leonardo Decaprio and Kate Winslet. I was 10 years old when I first saw that movie. I was like, okay. Some sex scenes aren't so bad, but others are like you're just waiting for it to be over with whether it's awkward because your parents are around or someone else that it could be awkward with. But there are more movies with those scenes that it could be awkward with as well.
2016-05-21 23:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely you could have a couple of things going on. First from an anatomical standpoint, you could have a tipped uterus with a short cervix. Another thing is infection, and PID, or pelvic inflammatory disease. You should call you OBGYN as soon as possible, because a lot of damage can be done in a short amount of time.
2006-11-04 06:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by gamrgirlzrul 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there are so many postions to have sex in, i hat more then any thing to be on top it hurts so bad, so we had to find a postion i liked best, just experience all different ones and tell him to be gentle. you also need to read up on some of them some are awesome and some just suck..the fun thing about finding the postions you like is having all that sex...i hope you find what you are looking for..good luck
and here is one site i found there are tons more..just type in sex postions 101
http://www.datingfun.com/sex/positions/
2006-11-04 06:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by bllnickie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try riding him and only go down till you are comfortable because you could be small. so you just have to ride him or he can't go in as far which he really doesn't have to do because the most sensitive part of the penis is the head so you are OK. have fun and be safe.
2006-11-04 06:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hon, you need to go to a gynecologist, and tell the Doctor all of this! You may have an internal problem that needs treatment. Please seek medical attention. It could save your life. Good luck!
2006-11-04 06:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by sunkissed 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you treid like a spoonig position
2006-11-04 06:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by carolianian85 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try some warming lotions. And relax!
2006-11-04 06:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by Eddie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Spooning or doggie style might work?
well..maybe he needs to give you oral sex for a while so you get really really wet...
2006-11-04 07:39:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Use oil and do lots of foreplay before doing sex it will create more interest in you and your partner have lots of mastubration by ur boyfriend use spit or oil in your vagina or *** if want anal .
2006-11-04 07:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋