I have a friend that recently got married and her husband has not told his mother, or his ex, that he is married. The ex has called and text her now husband and she is worried. She has asked me for help and all I could tell her is that the next time he goes home to visit, to insist on going with him! Wouldn't he have to introduce her as his wife?? Wouldn't this let his ex know that now he is married and she needs to back off?? Plz help me to inform her right on what she needs to do!!!
2006-11-04 06:28:50 · 9 answers · asked by panda 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I were her I would be seriously wondering why my new husband wants to keep me a secret. I would definitely want to go with him to see his family and hear him introduce me so that I know once and for all if he'll right out lie in front of me by introducing me as a friend or if he'll be a man and introduce me as his wife.
2006-11-04 06:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do believe that you need to tell your frienbd that you cannot be in the middle of this but that you would recommend she call the mother in-law and let her know that she has married her son I do believe it important for as well for her to go with him on the next home visit.. I find it very strange for a man to acting this way
I have heard of eloping but usually the parents of both families no they are going to tie the knot. This is very strnage as if this guy wants to keep his married life a secret to possibly screw around on his now wife. VERY SHADY I would tell your friend that you are afraid for her and her feelings that her new hubby may be
doing this to cheat on her with his ex? But not telling mom very strange I would express a deep concern for your friend and tell her to contact both other parties ASAP they need to know so this guy doesn't screw you all over many peoples feelings involved!
2006-11-04 14:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, thsi is a bizarre situation isn't it? Wondering why he hasn't/didn't announce his wedding. Is this not a cause for celebration??
Perhaps he didn't want the two women most closest to him at the time besides his fiance to nag at him.
It sounds to me like this guy isn't being honest, perhaps not even with himself? What is he thinking? I'd suggest his new wife sit down and have a serious discussion with him.
Im curious if he was married to his "ex" and if he actually got a full fledged divorce..
This guy clearly needs to dummy up, explain himself not to mention what is with his new wife? Did she not wonder why her new Mom in law wasn't invited to the wedding??
This sounds like an awfully strange situation.
2006-11-04 14:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by opinionative_1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The very first thing she needs to do is make sure this guy is actually divorced.
Then she needs to try to figure out why she married a man who disrespects her so much that he could not even tell his mother that he married her.
This guy is hiding something, your friend needs to find out what.
2006-11-04 14:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your friend to be careful because obviously she has a problem... Trust is the back bone of any relationship...
If he is covering up something like this what else is he covering up? If he loved your friend then what does it matter to tell his Mom or his Ex..I think the faster she gets out of this relationship the better!!!
2006-11-04 14:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if this guy loves her he would introduce to his mother unless he has secrets in the past and he doesn't want her to know. or maybe he is ashamed of his family.whatever it is she needs to get to the bottom of it.she should text the ex and tell her to leave her man alone!
2006-11-04 14:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by munchkin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell his ex to back off and hes married!
2006-11-04 14:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs to change every thing so he can't be called or text by his x ,that would help.And give wife a little better feeling.
2006-11-04 14:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you but if he really loved her then he would have no prob. telling ppl that they are married
2006-11-04 14:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by missy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋