2006-11-04 06:14:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him as soon as possible and give him your reasons.
2006-11-04 06:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard, but just tell him. I was very shy with my first boyfriend, and I realized that I really only liked him as a friend, after he kept trying to bring me places. I just couldn't lie to him... so straight out, I told him. He was very surprised because even though he had many gf's before me, he would break up with them by text message or by a phone call. But be brave, and just tell him face-to-face because it's the best way. Just remember, though: give him some time to feel better... and don't force him into being friends. If he is the type that will be fine after a while, continue talking to him online... at school... (wherever you are)... and don't let him drift too far off or the friendship may never be amended.
2006-11-04 06:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by Chocolate_swirls18 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends on how long you guys have been dating for. But just tell him straight out. Bring up the topic of dating first. Ask him what he thinks about your relationship. There's gotta be something that bugs him. Your not happy, so tell him whats bugging you, why you just want to be friends. If he cares soo much about you and wants you to be happy, then he should understand. He'll understand why you just wanna be friends. Then if he doesn't, his a jerk then. If he still wants to be with you, I would call him a jerk because then he knows your not happy but he won't do anything about it. Good luck :)
2006-11-04 06:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Just break up. Obviously don't do the full truth that's kinda hurtful. Just do the ame old, the relationship isn't as sstrong as it was and sorry but I don't want to carry it on
"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suf-fer-ing"
2006-11-04 06:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Hánnàh♥ [Hysteria] 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth. It's better than dragging it on forever and making him think otherwise. No one appreciates being led on.
2006-11-04 06:16:18 · answer #5 · answered by Kodoku Josei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. Don't keep stringing him along. Let him go so he can find someone that really cares about him.
2006-11-04 06:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way to remove a bandage is to just rip it off nice and fast. Just tell him a relationship is not what you right now.
2006-11-04 06:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by love2utam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him tell him the time and circustances arent right for you guys right now and although you do see something in the furture there just no way that you can handlethis right now. you arent trying to hurt his feeling, but you need to find yourself before you are capable of being with someone else.
2006-11-04 06:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so wait. why is he your boyfriend if you just want to be friends?? sounds like a girl i went out with for over a year who then told me she loved me like a brother. and i was like you mean you F**K your brother?? what the??
2006-11-04 06:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by Calvin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just simply say you want to be friends and thats all he will understand just say your not ready for a serious relathonship
2006-11-04 06:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋