I've always known i was bi since i was 3 im now 15 but i have mostly liked girls i've always had crushes on girls. But then comes softmore year and im liking guys way more. Its like i can see a sexy girl and would you know "hook up" with her but i dont get seriously turned on just looking at her but i can see a hot guy and get totally stiff. its like i like guys and girls i did like girls way more but now i like guys much more am i turning completely gay.This whole year I have had like 3 or 4 crushes on guys none on any girls last year it would have been the opposite what do you think.
2006-11-04 06:05:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Before puberty your sex drive was not as strong as your emotional attractions. Girls were more to your liking earlier as kindred souls perhaps. But you may be more gay than bi, since when puberty set in, the sexual desires were revealed as directed toward men and started replacing or overpowering the emotional attraction to women more and more as your testosterone levels increased.
2006-11-04 06:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only 15. your experiencing different hormonal changes. Most likely, only time will tell if you still experience these feelings. If you stilll get "stiff" when a man walks by after a few years, then your probably gay. Just do not act on your "stiffness". Just masturbate or something. Its not worth going out and screwing all these people.
2006-11-04 14:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Underlying your question seems to be the notion that you have to choose one gender or the other. Why? Look at it this way, you're attracted to particular people. Sometimes those people are men, sometimes they are women. Right now you are more attracted to men. Maybe that will change. Maybe it won't. In the grand scheme of things, does it really matter? Chances are, you'll eventually settle not on one gender, but on one person.
2006-11-04 14:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by izzy_a_dumas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man love is Topsy tourney and it like a roller coaster u just like a lot of boys because u liked a lot or girls now u are just Evening out
2006-11-04 14:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by nick wonders 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have always known i dont see the problem. theres nothing wrong with liking the same sex. just accept yourself.
2006-11-04 14:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're really shallow. you can't say you like/love someone just because when they walk by you, you get stiff.
2006-11-04 14:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by the cat's pajamas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself.
you're a person, not a label.
2006-11-04 14:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋