Men, How Do You Deal With Your Wife's Nagging?

Question

I'm not saying all wives nag only those men who's wife's nags, how do you deal with them?

I'm not looking for negative responses, I want men to tell me how they deal with their wives nagging.

Can anybody tell me their experience without attacking or insulting me? Thanks.

I don't like it when people start judging me when they don't even know me. I do everything for my wife- chores, work, cook, etc.. and she still nags.

I don't think its fair that some of you women think it's always our (the men's) fault, when some of us are good guys but we get attacked and nagged by our women.

Answer 1

I divorced mine and now she nags this other guy!

Answer 2

I really try not to nag at my husband a lot but sometimes when do it is more because I am in a bad mood and taking it out on him. He has found the quickest way to shut me up and stop me in my tracks though, when I start to nag he will look around then say I could have swore I just heard your mother. Don't get me wrong he loves my mom as I do but she is always nagging at us and my dad about something and when he says that I get the point and go on.

Answer 3

I nag not all the time, but all women who are married do it, think about it you live with this person and you will for the rest of your life...everyone has a bad day..EVERYONE...just like guys they also have bad days no one is perfect and 100% agree with owen, that is most of the reason behind a wives nagging...lol

Answer 4

I sure hope your wife don't know your asking this question!
I'm sorry to say wife's or ladies nag or whatever to us guys because to be honest we are lazy fess up guys you know its true. They just get tired of doing it all especially if kids are involved. So honestly if your asking this you may need to pick up the slack and help do some chores around the house this is not
the day in age when the women does everything especielly when they may work out of the house too. Trust me if you start helping out with household chores pick up groceries run errands etc. you should notice a big change in the amount of nagging.

Answer 5

We women nag because we don't know how else to get a message across. If i were you I would let my wife know that I'm listening and that she can talk without having to raise her voice or attack me.

Answer 6

Tell her to say what she wants or expects and let it be. If she wants to nag then I can leave. If you do the things that need to be done then she will have no need to nag.

Answer 7

It is rare when my wife nags, but when she does, I tell her with all love and respect that she is starting to nag, and that's it, if you tell her nice, it will end.

Answer 8

I used to think of it as nagging and I'd turn on my selective hearing and hear only what I wanted to hear.

But now I listen to what she has to say, because to her it's important, and if it's important to her, than it should be important to me.

Anymore, I don't think of it at nagging.

I love my wife, and it's wrong when I ignore her, so I listen to what she has to say.

Answer 9

When my fiance begins nagging etc. I usually say some smart assed remark and bring her back to reality. Although it angers her even more usually at first she eventually relents and thanks me. But before this occurs she at times looks at me and says this is not the time to be so mature and/or realistic.

Answer 10

i am a lady and i generally only nag when i am quite ignored, when he listens once in a while, i am more than happy to hush!