If your married and the relationship is not that bad, and your wife tells you that she wants a divorce because she needs to be free and find herself. Would it be wrong to still want to sleep with her. I'm still sleeping in the same bed as her and she is the one moving out of the house. Is it wrong to want her?
2006-11-04 05:56:15 · 12 answers · asked by beachdog 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not wrong to want her but if you're getting a divorce, u might as well sleep in different beds or better yet, one of u move out of the house.
2006-11-04 05:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does she want to be fre from you. This is just some question you may ask her or already know. Are you giving her enough of the attention that she wants. Like taking her out places to eat and the movies. showing her affection and that she drives you crazy. are you doing things to satisfy her in your bedroom (she geting her share of favors)? Have you really asked to see what he wants that she is not getting? Some women have a problem being straight forward so you need to ask and if you get an I don't know give suggestions and see if she will open up. Do you do as much as her to keep things up around the house or do you do to much while she does nothing?
figure out what is wrong in the house to solve the problem. Is she at home with only the pc for company all the time?
2006-11-04 14:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really be cautious yes you love her but it sounds like she has changed her mind on the whole marriage thing it is actually very surprising that she has not moved out yet if this is what she wants I would probably feel better taking the couch until she leaves. If she doesn't want to stayed married to you why keep
yanking your heart back and forth she want's out let her go and find a women who does want to settle down with you. To answer your other question you are a guy she is a gal us guys like sex alot so of course you are going to feel the temptation to sleep with her but do not because it will just hurt you even more in the end.
2006-11-04 14:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at least we know that there are no kids involved! I would accept that this woman didn't want to get married in the first place, or was too young to make an intelligent decision. Personally I would ask her if she would like an annulment. This is like never being married. She can go and do what she wants. The old proverbial "let the butterfly go test" As to wanting to have sex with her, what a horn dog! Come on have some self respect! She won't be the last women you sleep with.
2006-11-04 14:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to be "free" you may want to use protection. She may have been free already. I can understand you wanting to sleep with her, especially if you didn't see the divorce coming. I would really take a step back and figure out "WHY" she really wants the divorce, before throwing your heart on the line.... best of luck!
2006-11-04 14:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by Drew 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is not wrong at all you probably still love her and so your stuck in a hard spot of having passion for someone who does not have it for you. I would move on i know it may be hard but in the end that's what you probably will end up doing anyways. There's better out there go get em.
2006-11-04 14:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to be free and find herself,,did you speak for her at the alter? since you dont want to end it i would say no,,it isnt wrong to want to sleep with her but it is wrong of her to sleep with you,,this could make your self-esteem suffer if it continues,,you are giving her all the power and she may not let it slide when she leaves,,if indeed she does. she has decided to end it so all bets are off,,,no sex unless you really dont mind one day her saying she has met someone and the sex meant nothing,,,you knew she was not in love with you anymore so why are you upset. for your sanity and your dignity,,stop now.
2006-11-04 14:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is relation in bed still hot or not?if its still thats mean she has some thing she wants you to ask her about it,either that she could left home from long time,as she is your life you have the right to keep sleep with her.
2006-11-04 14:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by lostship 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not wrong it is her who wants the divorce isn't it? If its not you who wants to divorce it is only natural for you to want your wife.
2006-11-04 14:13:11 · answer #9 · answered by LKJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've asked this question twice, so I guess you didn't like the answers that you got the first time.
Do what you want to do. It sounds like you want to sleep with her. So do it.
2006-11-04 13:59:03 · answer #10 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋