Okay, so I'm in middle school (6th grade) and I hang out with this group of 7 girls.EVERYONE in the group only cares about them, and I feel like im being left out. Like for instance, This girl Bailey that's in the group got sick right? Well everyone was all "OMG bailey are you okay, how do you feel, are you alright?" And my damn grandpa died that day, and my brother went to Iraq 2 days later, I told them that and they didn't care! I'm not trying to get attention, but how come all they care about is themselves and leave me out? What should I do? And, Then whenever I ditch them, this bailey girl goes Emily emily i'm so sorry I won't do it again i promise i promise!! And ends up doing it again and again. I'm sick and tired of it. I can't seem to "get her off my back." Is it because I'm more mature than them or something? I don't understand. I only have two good friends who ARE mature like me, and who pays attention to me. But I just want a few more friends to hang out with. Thank you!!!
2006-11-04 05:53:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok stop hanging out with the girls for good. They aren't real friends if they don't care about you. The next time you leave don't come back. Just tell them how you feel about being left out and that it has never changed before. Why would it change this time? Find better friends that care about you, not about themselves only.
2006-11-04 05:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell that group of friends that u don't need them any more.
Because a friend is some one that helps u and cares about u.
and those girls do not! Just stick with the two friends and try to make new friends!
2006-11-04 14:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i gots to say is don't hang out with them anymore if their treating you like this you should hang out with people that cares for you and loves you for you. You dont need as much friends since you already have two good friends by your side.
2006-11-04 14:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by LiTo_OnE06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friends don't care about your feelings then you need new friends. you also have to stop and think you are probably a little stressed out so try to not be to hard on your friends. but if this is really how they always treat you find new friends. you don't need them.
2006-11-04 13:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kellen's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to think of the one who is with u always & not others.its in ur hands 2 make everything positive.its not a prblm, even most of the sensitive ones face this .try to be cool.
2006-11-04 14:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm ... friendship issues ... you need to ask yourself are they your friends? if they are then you do have issues within yourself (why be around people that don't care for you) ... if their not then its not an issue ...
2006-11-04 13:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by common sense 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋