Hi, im in high school and well im still "not outgoing" lets just say that all my other friends are starting to get sexy and act sexy..does any one have any tips on hwo i can be that way too?
2006-11-04 05:45:50 · 9 answers · asked by The Names Kayty 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Don't be a follower. Be yourself otherwise you'll just look like a wanna-be.
2006-11-04 05:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by pebble 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just stop trying to be like your friends and be yourself. By sexy I am assuming you mean whorish. You have to do what's right for you. Not because your friends are doing it. If they jumped off of a bridge would you? There is nothing wrong with not acting sexy. I have plenty of guys that like me, but it's not because I act sexy. I don't wear miniskirts or belly shirts or anything like that and I'm just the crazy, sweet, happy, fun loving girl that everyone likes. I mean yeah there are some guys that don't like me, but that's ok. I would rather have a guy like me for me than because I look like a slut and act sexy. The only guys that would want you because you look and act sexy are the ones that want you for one thing. Unless that's what you want, I would just dress in jeans or something not too revealing. Showing a little skin isn't a big deal, but not too much or you send the wrong message. There is nothing wrong with just being yourself, you don't have to act and dress sexy. That sends the "I'm Easy" message to guys.
2006-11-04 13:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself.
Trust me.
People can usually see right through "shams", and you might just end up looking silly.
"Outgoing" means different things for different people.
If you're really self-concious about it though, I'd suggest you take up some hobbies where you'll meet other people so you can branch out beyond this group.
Take your time though, and enjoy the years we've still got to act silly and immature. No point in growing up too fast.
2006-11-04 13:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by ibbrilliantness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Give me a break. You SO don't need to be that way. Its gross! Boys will all just think your a slut and all the girls will hate you. Don't try to "act sexy" because you'll just be acting ridiculous.
2006-11-04 17:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by utah_snow_bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your not ready to be "sexy" don't just let your self grow into it. but if you want to but don't know how, just wear what makes you feel sexy and not just hoochie clothes.
ps im 17 and just 2years ago started feelin "sexy" so dont stress it will come to you soon.
Good Luck!
2006-11-04 13:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by Doisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being yourself is pretty damn sexy why? because i find lots of girls start to lose there selves and act only whorish and not real.It's rare to find a person being themselves
2006-11-04 20:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to be 'sexy'. When you try to hard, you look silly, not sexy.
2006-11-04 15:55:33 · answer #7 · answered by Faerie In Combat Boots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't. That sucks - be youreslf
2006-11-04 13:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your kidding right?
2006-11-04 13:46:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋