i am so romantic yrt, my bf lacks the romance.i like passionate love making and candle light,and things like that,but my bf likes,heck i dont think he likes anything.he thinks, im too passionate and he said he just like regular old s e x.but what about me,my likes and dislikes.
2006-11-04 05:41:50 · 12 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is from a 60 year old guy, so I hope you don't mind!!
If your boy friend doesn't like being romantic, and thinks that LOVE MAKEING is ONLY SEX, than you are with the wrong person.
2006-11-04 05:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by lariat_sonata 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You tell me. Love is so suited yet once you initiate to advance reliable thoughts for someone then it starts to lose that's elegance. that's the way I see it a minimum of. It does get complicated certainly. distinctly once you come your like to that guy he without caution pulls away! Then it receives extremely complicated! I wish it were tremendous uncomplicated! You fall in love and also you've were given no problems with the fellow you fall in love with. You get engaged and then get married. and then have babies and stay thankfully ever after. wish it were similar to those love songs from the 50's and 60's. If in hardship-free words!
2016-10-16 07:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men are men and women are women. We are wired different. Men know that we like passion and flowers and such, so they give us that in the beginning. Eventually, it stops because they've got us.
What you can do is stop telling him what he's doing wrong and take over the situation. You light the candles, you fill the tub for a bath for 2...
2006-11-04 05:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First if he loves you he should spend time pleasing you as well.
Sounds like you need to find a more sensitive guy they like me are more caring loving and passionate.
I spreads flowers all over for my wife and got her a teddy with a hart well leading her in the room with a trail of poems on y i love her for valentines.
2006-11-04 05:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl i feel sorry for you, trying to reach your peek, and feel the best sex all the time. You may have to trick him into what you want to do, but bring it on one thing at a time. Wiggle on him ( you know what I mean) get him to enjoying it more, make him ask you about the candles and stuff. this should take about three or four months to do before you've got him.
2006-11-04 05:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him about it, try and find a middle ground. Not many guys are as romantic as women..but if he really cares about you and wants to make you happy, I'm sure he will make you feel special.
2006-11-04 05:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by shy_dixon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If love was simple it would be boring:)
Try taking the initiative and prepare a candlelight dinner or be a little more daring and spice up your sex life...Maybe he's negative because he really doesn't know what he's missing!
Good luck!
2006-11-04 05:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love always takes work from both parties to keep the eternal flame lit.
2006-11-04 05:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must love him to stay with him, and that is OK, we are all different. But, yes he should try harder to be romantic, It is a choice. Have a great day.
2006-11-04 05:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone who respects what u like. who's willing to give u what YOU want once in awhile. otherwise just accept that this guy isn't all you'd hoped for. remember tho'...resentment will grow.
2006-11-04 05:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by meme 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋