I found a number in my husbands phone, i think he is cheating, if i know that he is and confronted him, why didn't he just admit it??? why are you going to say its just a friend?
2006-11-04 05:39:49 · 32 answers · asked by Angel2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
call the number and ask who it is just say this number is on your phone bill numerous times and you don't recognize it as anyone you know.
2006-11-04 05:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call the number, your beef is with your husband. You need to talk to him and if that doesn't work. Just keep in mind what you know and look for changes in the relationship. Calling the other woman may get you an answer or not. You know your husband and weather he's cheating,
2006-11-04 06:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by April G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the number. Find out who it is. Ask them if they know your husband and if they do, how do they know them.
Of course he's going to say that it's just a friend. Would you expect an answer like "oh, it's someone that I've been sleeping with for the past 3 months".
2006-11-04 05:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask first the if you still feel that he's cheating the call the number. don't forget to write it down. But most of the time if you feel that they are cheating they are. Has anything changed with you to You have to think about that to because all cheater change how they are at home. Is he still loving to you. Are you to fighting all the time over stuff that you wouldn't any other time. But if He is cheating then you need to think to yourself if you real want to stay with him or he need to leave because If you want him to leave then you need to tell him If you are cheating please tell me so I can give you want your not getting at home right now. and if you don't want him the you say I know your cheating and get the f out. But you do need to know the reason that men cheat is because they don't get what they need at home. Not to say you're a bad wife but some men need more than others like my ex husband!! And other men just do it because they can
2006-11-04 05:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you get to the point where you have to starting playing detective nine times out ten your assumptions are correct.
You can call the number, then when you find out what you already know then what?
If you are already snooping the trust is out the door and you can't have a relationship that lacks trust.
If you do find out that he cheating what steps are you willing to take. Are you going to have the strength or will you stay and if you stay or you going to have the strength to let it go.
2006-11-04 05:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by sweetcincylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call that number and see who answers. Most likly hes cheating but if you found out he was would you really leave him. Alot of people want to know the truth but when its confirmed they do nothing about it. So before you start this war make sure your strong enough to stick it out to the end. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-11-04 06:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by DANIELLE C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people just dont admit to an affair do they,,they lie and think about how they can stop it or cover their tracks better. you dont need to be sure of anything to know there is trouble in a marriage and that should be his priority if he doesnt want you thinking he is cheating,,more time spent together,talking more,,enjoying each others company,,if he doesnt acknowledge his actions make you suspect his infidelity and stops doing whatever it is that causes this thought,you need to state clearly your marriage is in trouble,,affair or not.a new 'friend' can always be dropped if it causes problems,,it isnt like you are asking him to end a long term and stable friendship and you,,as his wife,should be number one,not number two.
2006-11-04 05:48:15 · answer #7 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I would do: Get the number from him. Have a guy who can immitate your husband's voice and tell the guy to act like the two of them are seeing each other. You can definitely find out if he is by doing this.
2006-11-04 05:42:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe he isn't cheating..... or he could just want to have his cake and eat it too! Guy are bastards and you can hardly get the truth out of them . My ex will still not admit that it was his fault he cheated on me. He tries to blame it on me and other circumstances. Guys are mostly just liars. Sorry but, it's true.
2006-11-04 05:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that.Call it.Thats the only way youll know.I go to te reverse directory first and look it up on the net.Name and address is there.Regardless Call it!You will always wonder if you dont.If it were a friend wouldnt you know who it was?
2006-11-04 10:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by migamw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋