Do you want to remain a virgin untill your wedding? Why or why not?

Answer 1

This is how I feel about it ...

You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.

You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future husband.
It is you... it is all of you.

If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.

Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.

I am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of 9 months that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...

Answer 2

I did. I remained a virgin until I was married at the age of 28. I did it for 3 reasons. 1. I respect my self and my body. 2. I didn't want to have children out of wed lock. 3. Love Making is such a special and intimate act that I wanted to share it with one person, my husband.

Answer 3

I intend to remain a virgin because the bible instructed me to do so. I don't care if anybody else follows my lead or not. Everyone has the right to believe in what they want to believe and do whatever they want to do with their body. But I get so annoyed when someone tries to talk me out of my decision to wait and throwing that "test driving a car" myth all in my face. I'll take my chances I don't want a car that has too much mileage on it. And I'll try my best to keep my husband happy as long as he doesn't take me for granted.

Answer 4

I never intended to wait until marriage, but I always knew I'd wait until I was in a loving, stable and healthy relationship. I also waited until I was out of HS because I did not feel prepared to deal with the consequences responsibly.

For some couples, waiting until marriage is right for them, but for a lot, they wind up not knowing anything about sex because they're Christian and sex education was not offered to them, just abstinence only, so they wind up terrified of their first time and pressured to do it because they're married. That doesn't make any sense to me.

I also think that depriving your relationship from going where it naturally needs to go is often damaging and painful.

I also feel that people need to know that they are compatible in ALL aspects of their relationship, including sexually.

I also feel that couples who have made a commitment to each other are just as worthy of sharing the beauty of sex with each other as any married couple is. I also disagree that you are more capable of handling a pregnancy when you're married. People rush into marriages all the time these days and people do not feel they have to remain in relationships that are not healthy, so the divorce rate is higher. I also don't think being married means you're more in love with your spouse than any other couple, or that it means that you are more mature.

Answer 5

Its amazing if it can happen ^_^ Not a easy feat though.. If two people are virgins that would be quite exciting in my books cause everything is new and unexplored.. adds fun to the wedding night..

Answer 6

with all the stds out there i know know why not better safe then sorry if you want to live and have kids

Answer 7

I do caz there r STD and other things and mostly of my religion

Answer 8

It's too late for me !
How ever I do recommend it .

Answer 9

depends on the circumstances of my feelings

Answer 10

i lost mine many many years before my wedding because there no reason to wait this isnt the stone age