I know this sounds kinda wierd but my husband wont stop groping me. Anytime he gets close to me he has to grab my boob or touch me down there. Its getting really annoying, i tell him all the time to knock it off i dont like it. I think there is a time and place for this but not when im trying to do something. Dont get me wrong, i usually just let him do it and i think its cute sometimes. Also, he always turns the most non-sexual conversations in to sexual ones. Ugh i cant stand that when im trying to have a normal converstation with him he always does this. Talking to him is not helping the situation. i feel that becuase he's like this i dont want to have sex that often becuase it's like hes been touching me all day and talking dirty all day and im ready for bed... what can i do so that im not so annoyed by this because i know he's just being a man.
2006-11-04 05:23:49 · 22 answers · asked by no name 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You could try, "fighting fire, with fire", by doing the same things to him in a very annoying way to let him see what it's like. What you're doing is NOT working, so give it a try. What do you have to lose? Every time he comes around, grab at his crotch...not in a sexy way, but in an aggressive way. He'll get the message!
2006-11-04 05:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it may sound kind of strange a lot of woman would probably die to be in your situation as their man doesn't show them any affection at all. Besides if and when the day comes that he stops this behaviour then you are going to a) perhaps miss this little affection that is pissing you off at present and b) wonder what has changed to make him stop.
I will admit that I sound a bit like your husband as I often am guilty of groping at my fiance also. But do not always make conversations into sex.
Once again try to explain how it makes you feel and come to a compremise. Good luck.
2006-11-04 05:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your not satisfying him in bed thats why he feels he has to get the cheap feels in all the time. Just have sex all the time then he will adventually lay off a bit. YOu shold be happy that he is in to you that way alot of girls would love to have there man all over them giving the that sexual touch and affection. Good luck
2006-11-04 05:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by tckk1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh! I got totally turned off by my husband doing the same thing. It just drove me nuts. It's smothering and obnoxious - especially when in public!
My husband is now my ex-husband because of this!
Turn the tables and start grabbing his crotch and talking like a sailor - demand he get it up right then and there and demand it be rock hard and ready to go!
Shock him to death with your own obnoxious behavior and language and he'll back off.
2006-11-04 07:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may think you are kidding when you are talking to him. Talk to him and let him know you are dead serious. This is NOT normal for married couples for this to be happening all the time like it is. I am in agreement with you about there being a time and place for it. Tell him this. Sex is on his mind all the time I am sure. It's on most guys minds all the time. BUT STILL there is a time and place for displaying it. You need to somehow get through to him.
2006-11-04 05:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by dumpsterdd90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least you know that he's not cheating on you. If you don't seem to be in the mood as often as him, then get in the mood. Ask your doctor about taking Testosterone pills. It will cause you to have a lot more sexual urges.
2006-11-04 05:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he isn't really respecting what your saying to him. He like finds it amusing he thinks he can touch you all he wants. If you tried to talk to him in a serious way and he still won't listen to you...maybe schedule a counselling appointment and he canhear it from the councillor just how disrespectful he is being to you.
good luck.
2006-11-04 05:29:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an ex-boyf with this problem. Everything was sex sex sex with him and you couldn't have a decent conversation about anything else and it all got a bit tiring. So I dumped him!
I don't suppose its that easy with a husband.
2006-11-04 05:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by feelingsense2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs help - his so called overdrive is just a little over the top - maybe send him to a shrink to tone it down and tell him you do not like too much PDA (public displays of affection). Communication is really important and respect to... he should realize when u r getting uncomfortable and knoc it off... sounds like a jerk to me!
2006-11-04 05:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by spliff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem but remeber woma grow up faster than men turn the table in front of his friends grab his *** treat him like a sex toy and then tell him thats how he makes you feel
2006-11-04 05:28:27 · answer #10 · answered by allison b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋