I was best friends with a girl who is really pretty and nice. She used to be a tye dye t-shirt wearing girl, careless about looks, she was all about fun. last year she got into a bad group of friends and completely ignored me. now, this year, she is in the popular group and NEVER talks to me. she is now obsessed with her looks and has a boyfriend thats a complete jerk. maybe i'm sad, and maybe i'm jelous because she is so pretty and popular but i dont know what to do. i've lost a friend and now i feel like i want to slap her. i feel really lost.
2006-11-04 05:13:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to just let it go & don't let her have that much power over you. You are allowing this person to determine your happiness. Just move on & find another friend.
2006-11-04 05:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You must be around high school age. Sh*t happens when girls are that age. It's the "weird" stage as I called it. some girls try to find themselves, and lose close friends in the process without even knowing it. You sound like a nice person, so it sounds like her loss, and not yours. There's plenty of better, nicer, less self centered people out there that I'm sure you'll make friends with. Who cares about the whole popularity thing! I thought it mattered back then, but now all the "popular" people I run into now being out of high school for 3 years, they're working jobs like, waitress, fedex and stupid things like that, and I have a nice job interior designing, so it doesn't matter how popular she is, she might not even be happy, and prolly feels bad about how she's treated you. Well sorry for such a long answer, hope I helped you out hun! Take care ~*TheKind*~
2006-11-04 13:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by StonerChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me, and the only thing was that I changed, but not to be popular by physical nor 'wtih whom I'm friends with' but I stepped up and started to socialize. I was no one before and turned out to be cool. You could do that, or just go by and say like 'hi!' or when she's alone say things like 'you look great! It's amazing how you've changed'. Ignore her because a real friend never abandones you and don't look what you've lost but look what you have. You should not feel jealous, she's the one that let herself change not you, you are original and don't let anyone influence you, just remember, she's the fool so talk to her whenever you see her alone and let her fall, because popularity doesn't last forever. Wish you luck.
2006-11-04 13:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by elipra91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did NOT loose, she lost. This girl sounds like a poser who will do ANYTHING to fit in, which is not the kind of friend you should have in the first place. She sounds like a real B I T C H, and you dont sound like one. Find friends who are going to be by you no matter WHAT, no matter whose popular, or whose cool. Dont be upset because you lost her, because she didnt sound like a true friend. She might be pretty on the outside, but she sounds very ugly on the inside, which matters also. Dont feel lost, get out there and find TRUE friends, there are plenty of good people out there. Good luck!
2006-11-04 13:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel. I'm sorry your going through this. Its the worst thing when your betrayed by a friend like that. Listen you need to find real friends, she obviously isnt a good friend. Find someone you can relate to and jsut forget about her. She doesnt deserve a person like you.
besides those "popular" girls are so concieted and such worry warts its always better to hang out with more average kids.
2006-11-04 13:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by gian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right. If I was in your place I would ignore her and move on. All people change eventually. Make new friends and forget about her,
2006-11-04 14:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by kellyhalkyard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋