Earlier this week I saw a post on here where a woman was talking about hiring a private eye to investigate her daughters boyfriend. Somebody mention the link http://background-records.net/ as a good place to find info online. Well I checked out the site and entered my sisters boyfriends name and found out that he was convicted of assualt in 1996 and served 24 months in prison. I know this is him because the name, date of birth, and address are all the same. I am sure my sister doesn't know (and I am damn sure our dad doesn't know).......should I tell my sister or our dad? I don't know how to handle this situation.
In a few weeks I am going to be sitting at Thanksgiving dinner with my family. I can't go through that day holding onto this secret but I am afraid that my sister will hate me for telling her.
2006-11-04 05:12:52 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should do it because if not she might be abused and even killed. Then would you hate yourself? She might be very thankful that you told her about it before it gets to serious. Tell her soon
2006-11-04 05:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by SnowWhite 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't know the whole story, he may have been in the wrong place at the wrong time and had to use self defense. At least he isn't married with a four year old son like my ex-boyfriend is.
2006-11-04 05:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi! I think you must tell her the truth about her fiance because you love your sister.
Je vais parler en français parce que c'est plus facile pour moi: tu es plus proche d'elle que lui quelque soit les evenements . En plus, s'il était vraiment honnete, il en aurait deja parlé avec elle! donc, si c'est pas le cas, et pour le bien etre futur de ta soeur, il vaut mieux tout lui raconter.
Courage!
2006-11-04 05:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by Emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no , that's a hard one .
I'm not sure she will believe that you found out
by a random chance .
I say pray about it , she might get hurt down the line if you don't tell her .
2006-11-04 05:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really doesn't matter that was ten years ago. just tell her and get it over with. you know she will not hate you. i know the best man in the world who was in prison for 7 years so what
2006-11-04 05:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by yella 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it annonymously. Duh.
2006-11-04 05:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋