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2006-11-04 04:54:35 · 6 answers · asked by ogmansur 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ogmansur, hi!
hey! don't worry... you're not stupid! you're just a sweet guy who's just being misunderstood...
see, you need to understand that women can't trust any guy who comes to her asking for friendship directly... because so many guys must be trying to get her attention, and it will be really irritating for them...
the idea is to treat her like a normal person... respect her for who she is...
i have a question for you: you must be having many male friends, right? did you become friends with them by asking them "can i be your friend?"
it sounds weird, right? you became friends with them because you had some common interests, or because you liked his behavior, or character, whatever...
same way, try to be natural and she should become friends with you because of who you are... not because you go and ask her for friendship...
never do that. people will think there's something wrong with your intentions...
hope this helped... best of luck with the new women in your life!
enjoy!
2006-11-04 05:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by bangaloresizzler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not stupid but some people think that you should be friends with guys if ur a guy and girls if ur a girl. if asking a girl to be a friend than just tell her your intentions and why. most of my friends are guys andi only have 2 girl(friends) and that works out perfectly.
2006-11-04 12:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kamitara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you ask??? It depends in what way did you ask the females? you know, females have a sixth sense, that is very sharp. You must have showed your (intentions) by your expressions and body language. You must have showed your stupidity thts why you have courage to call yourself 'stupid'.
Be patient....try and try again...but please be CIVIL.
2006-11-04 13:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by manjira 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nopes not at all. its coz female go for security more than f ship moreover indian girls most go for being secure and safe. my kind request stop degrading yourself
wait until u get a really good f ship. take care
2006-11-04 13:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by nicky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not a stupid thing, But i think ur style & timing is not good for asking for Friendship... firstly u make ur personality in that girl that he think ur r a very good & a simple persone i.e. u make ur self immpressive then ask for friendship..
2006-11-04 13:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by dinesh_bhavsar94 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey you can be my frend wanna be my friend
2006-11-04 23:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by TIMEPASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋