I was in love with a foreigner. During that process I disclosed many about my respected teacher to her. After the affair, she has threatened me that if I talk about me ( hurt ) her, she will ruin my career as she will tell some truths and many lies. And people will trust her as there will be truths in them. Another thing is taht she has told me that in future she may involve embassy as my love letters, SMS are with her, and impose the sexual harrasment case on me. I am thinking and not finding any way.
What should I do?
Should I beg pardon from her? ( I am sorry, please don't do this)
or should I tell the things to my teacher.
or any other advice...
Plase don't play jokes....
I am worried.
May God help you...
2006-11-04 04:40:04 · 5 answers · asked by PQR ABC 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Books & Authors
It may seem difficult, but the best way to resolve these matters is to get in first. Tell your friends the secrets that you are afraid will be exposed, let your family know, too. Once the information held against you is in the public domain, the blackmailler holds no power over you, and you can express it in your own terms, and explain to those who count, why you said/did such things. True friends and family may be disappointed in you, and might be angry for a short while, but they'll get over it.
Whilst you're at it, you could also divulge any nuggets of information you have on the blackmailler, that they might prefer kept quiet. The fact that they would stoop to such depths as blackmaiiling you, does not make them seem so good.
Good luck, ride the storm, and have a good life in future.
2006-11-04 05:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by SteveUK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure exactly what the question is the language seems misguided. But if you had mentioned stuff to her about your teacher, then Yes I would tell the teacher the truth and hope for the best. You could beg pardon (tell her you are sorry) but only if you really are and didn't mean to say or do the things you may have done. Come clean with it and you will feel much better about yourself and start over with a clean slate.
Good Luck to you.
2006-11-04 05:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understand correctly, she is outside the country. If she is don't worry about it much.
One thing you can do is start spreading the word that you have been a victim of identity theft. Then when she starts spreading bad news about you, you can say that it must be someone using your information to blackmail you. This is kind of extreme, but asking her to not do it is just not going to work.
Even when in love, keep your private life private until you get married and live together. after married you have no choice, she will read all your e-mails, letters, phone records, credit card bills, papers in your wallet......
2006-11-04 04:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by jasonheavilin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of hard to understand what you are saying, but in general if someone threatens you, the best thing to do is come clean and tell the truth FIRST to whomever they are threatening to tell.
Cut off all contact with this person. Don't communicate with them in any way and do not speak about them with others.
2006-11-04 04:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont really understand what the problem is but
I would confess to the teacher, that way the foreigner has no hold on you
Darkness only has power until it is EXPOSED then it has no power
2006-11-04 04:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋