I would suggest that you wait and get married first. If your bf doesn't want to or isn't ready, dump him. Then find someone who's life is more in sync with yours. But don't put the cart before the horse when it comes to children.Your child would be much better off with a mom & dad at home for them rather than a mom and her boyfriend who just happen to be the sperm donor. As Christy says below you don't need a man to take care of a child. But a child needs a man to be it's father in life. Think of what is good for the child instead of what is good for you. because when you do have a baby, that's the way you will need to think for the rest of your life.
2006-11-04 04:35:28
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answered by Do You See What Happens Larry? 5
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WHAT.....i cant believe that your parents are saying this, at 28 they should be encouraging you to settle down with your man & have a baby. Im only 30, had two kids at age 20 & 22 but split with there dad 5 yrs ago and I will tell you that its bloody hard being a single parent..so please dont do that to yourself.
I dont think its a good idea, its a decsion that you should discuss with your man,
2006-11-04 04:53:53
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answered by bakebeanie 2
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dont move back home i did and i here stuff like i dont know how to take care of my baby and they drink her juice and everything.. bad idea..plus the baby will be so spoiled it will drive u crazy..plus if hes not ready ask him and if not think what u want and find someone who wants the same thing u do...
2006-11-05 17:43:25
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answered by ? 1
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to me , no , it not a good idea-- why not get married to your love and have a child in wedlock and not out of it-- most people on here are b/f or g/f trying to concieve-- if ya'll are in true love and want kids why not get married and give the kids love, a home and most of all a committment to one another- im just old fashion and love the old ways-- sorry
2006-11-04 04:40:38
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answered by Ladder Captain-29 5
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No! Don't move back home! Been there, done that. It's difficult with two families in the same household. Communication is so important! Talk to your boyfriend and find out why he is "not sure".
2006-11-04 04:36:29
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answered by Anonymous 4
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Sure, child, they want you back home 'cause they need some life to their lives. Be fast as you can. Good luck and congratulations.
2006-11-04 06:52:30
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answered by 2Toke 1
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Of course not..
Don't lose ur time & health then he leaves u with ur baby. Even if ur parents will help u,
Wait untill a real man who loves u comes & marry u...........then have lots of babies as u wish.
2006-11-04 04:39:24
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answered by Monika 3
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Hey, if you have such a good support system, then go for it, in today's life, a woman doesnt really need a man to take care of a child, so if you have help from your parents and relatives, then go for it!!!! Good luck!!!
2006-11-04 04:36:38
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answered by BabyGirl 2
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no
2006-11-04 09:34:35
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answered by I love sushi 4
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