To me it represents confidence and authority. I hate a weak handshake, in a man or a woman. I don't trust people with wimpy handshakes. They seem sneaky and distrustful.
2006-11-04 04:26:14
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answered by Emm 6
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RUN!!! Just kidding, theres is a difference between a strong handshake and a claw gripping you...Know that difference...Here is a guide from Askmen.com.I hope that it answers you're question.
Handshake
By John Samuel
Success Correspondent - Every 2nd Saturday
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You're probably aware of the importance of making a good first impression, right? Once an employer has evaluated the way you present yourself, what's the next thing you will be judged on? That's right, your handshake.
Make sure your handshake is firm and dry; this will allow you to make a good first impression. I have shaken a lot of hands in my career and can now group them into five categories based on different characteristics. Insights will be given on what handshakes project confidence and which ones don't for each of these categories.
There are many repulsive handshakes, the wet one probably being the worst handshake around, so try to keep your palms dry. People get nervous, especially before an interview, so just remember to keep your hands dry and wipe your sweaty palms.
Here are two tips in order to keep your hands dry.
1. Wash your hands before going to the interview and keep your palms open until the time comes to shake hands with the employer. Make sure not to close your fists, because that's what generates the heat and sweat.
2. Wipe your hands before the handshake. Carry a Kleenex to wipe your hands, as this will help you absorb the excess moisture and allow you to give a dry handshake.
A soft handshake demonstrates weakness, lack of confidence, lack of interest, and lack of masculinity. These are obviously the opposites of power and strength, important attributes in respected and successful people. I would suggest that if you do have a weak handshake, firm it up. This will definitely leave a better impression every time you shake hands. Pay attention to how much pressure is applied by the receiver and notice if your handshake is firm enough, then adjust yours accordingly.
I am sure this happened to you before. Someone takes your four fingers, not allowing you to really lock your hand with theirs, and then squeezes your hand hard. That is really frustrating and should be avoided. This can happen easily when rushed or simply by accident. My advice to you is to apologize and ask the person for a second handshake. It might sound awkward, but people actually remember this and will appreciate the respect derived from a real quality handshake.
This type of handshake is classic. You know how guys and their egos are; they have to be the strongest male around. Some guys really like to squeeze your hand as if it was a lemon. Don't get me wrong, I like a sturdy handshake, but it has to be comfortable to the receiver to some degree. Just save your testosterone for the gym and moderate your grip.
These days, people need a manual to decode some of those weird handshakes. I see kids twiddling, slapping, clicking, and dancing with their fingers, and they actually consider these handshakes. Please grow up and be men. No more hocus pocus; a simple, firm handshake, will do fine.
A handshake is a very simple gesture, but can be a determining factor in interviews and social gatherings. Just make sure you firmly shake the person's hand and look at them straight in the eye. This is a simple, yet effective tip which will hopefully allow you to make a great first impression.
2006-11-04 04:27:43
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answered by nope 2
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A strong handshake signifies poise and confidence along with the sincerity of meeting the other person. In contrast, a weak handshake represents lack of confidence and commital towards the other person.
2006-11-04 04:27:09
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answered by Randy 4
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It signifies strength and confidence by the individual. Its also character in ones ability....especially with a 1-2 punch of direct eye contact with a firm handshake!
2006-11-04 04:41:16
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answered by fxbeto 4
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It signifies confidence and self awareness. Like you know what you want, and you are strong enough to try your hardest to get it. THat is why they always say that in job interviews a strong handshake is key because you arent cowering, you are being very strong and assured (even if you are self-conscious), it gives a good feeling to those who are at the recieving end!
2006-11-04 04:27:22
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answered by overwhelmed85 3
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I've been told my hands look like those of an MMA fighter. don't know why, they are large, calloused, some fingers twisted from past breaks (a 200 pound bomb fell on my hand once in the navy good thing it was not fused). I have a decently strong grip but I don't try to impress anyone. I did do some Jui Jitso before I joined up in the service. My wife used to call them monster hands. I'll never make it as a hand model I guess unless gnarly hands come into style.
2016-05-21 23:10:02
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answered by Anonymous
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A strong hand.
A confident handshake is merely firm, and is accompanied by some other body language.
2006-11-04 04:26:51
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answered by ericscribener 7
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that you are strong decisive and capable
A weak handshake from a man or woman is a sign that you are pathetic unmotivated dull etc
2006-11-04 04:27:10
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answered by Anonymous
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a hi
2006-11-04 04:26:09
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answered by Anonymous
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a lot of practice in handshaking
2006-11-04 04:30:18
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answered by Anonymous
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