2006-11-04 04:18:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Probably because "you are looking for love in all the wrong places", to quote the song.
You are not going to find a good quality woman in bars or dance halls.
You are going to find a nice woman at volunteer associations, in church, at the grocery store, in the park walking her dog, at the museums, etc. There are millions of quality women in the world but perhaps you are looking in the wrong places.
2006-11-04 04:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not hard to do but you are in a different dating field now and should be looking for someone with your same experience. Try some parents without partners groups if this interest you. Christian singles groups are great. That's where I found my third wife. There is definitely life after divorce and for me, a lot better one. Take some time after the divorce though to get through the crap in your mind. You need to heal some so you don't jump into a bad relationship on the rebound like I did. I decided to stay single for 5 years after the second marriage fell apart. Work on yourself and become whole. Then you can enjoy the rest of your life with a good woman who also has her stuff together.
2006-11-04 04:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by kstfas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because divorce is horrible and they are probably wondering what is wrong with you. I'm not saying that is the right thing to think, but some immature, inexperienced women may think that. You are obviously looking in the wrong places and have your attention focused on the wrong kind of female. If you try dating because of looks only, or younger ladies, you might want to change who you're paying attention to. that doesn't mean go look for ugly old women, just look a little deeper in general. Also, maybe stop trying so hard.
2006-11-04 04:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that most women think we are only interested in one night stands or they want a full commitment and nothing in between. The other problem is most guys have lost their whole social circles due to having a family. I think that there is someone for everyone out there. Instead of trying to date try joining up singles groups to buildup a base of friends and interest outside the divorce. You have to be happy with yourself first then things will start changing for the better. Good luck
2006-11-04 04:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because one of womens biggest fears is that the guy is going to leve them as soon as she starts to have feelings for the guy. A women needs the security that a guy i going to be serious about her and try to make the relationship work out. Divoroce to a lot of people means that you aren't good at keeping a relationship, which is totally untrue, when you find a women explain to her why you are divorced, if she likes you she'll listen and understand....dont give up yet!
2006-11-04 04:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Ashly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your not looking in the right places. And it may have to do with what you call good women. How picky are you? it's just dating you know.
I dated several women after my first wife and I separated. Met them all through an on-line dateing service. And had to get a quick divorce before I got married again.
That aside....if you have nothing locally to find women there is always on-line. You would not believe how many women you can meet this way. But you have to go do it.
One place...just for starters.......and there are thousands more.
2006-11-04 04:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by John B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello,
well i have the same problem???i am only 27 with 2 children...and i have been hurt by 1 person and i have a problem with trusting men.....the thing i do is get in to a relationship and end it when we just start to get close....people have told me that the healing process takes a long time.....but i don't trust the men around my daughters.....by the way are 10 years apart....but sometimes i think that i will never find love again.....have you looked in to why your so picky has she done something to betray you that hurt so bad you don't want to trust another woman????or are you afraid to fall inlove again????thats my problem is fallin in love and getting hurt....so i stop it before l let it happen again and i know that i am wrong on that part but it is hard to trust like i once did.....you might have the same problem.....i don't know what your last situation was but that could be just it.....
2006-11-04 07:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by wendy p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess I could ask the same about why is it so difficult to find a good man to date. We carry around some much baggage from our ex's.. It's not like when your young and you have so many options without all that baggage. It amazes me that there are so many people who just want to find the person to spend their time or life with. Yet, it's difficult to know if your making the right decisions. Kind of like Forest Gump...life's a box of chocolates.. I guess you just keep looking and hope you find your favorite chocolate.
2006-11-04 04:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by one_daytripper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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Once you see her, don’t hesitate. 10 minutes from now she might not be there or another guy might have beaten you to the punch. Plus, women can tell when you’re working up the courage to approach. Shyness might be endearing in movies and romance novels, but it doesn’t work in the real world. Approach right away, even if you don’t know what you’re going to say
2016-05-17 07:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce for men should really say damaged. I mean when women hear divorced the think damaged goods and has issues with relationships. I say stay single have fun and keep all not half!!!!
2006-11-04 04:44:18 · answer #10 · answered by don b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋