All of my friends that are girls that have lost their virginity seem like they all of a sudden became more mature. is that true?
2006-11-04 04:15:09 · 37 answers · asked by b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It varies and depends very much on the person's personality and thinking concepts. Why some become more mature after losing virginity is because they learnt some precious mistakes, they make sure they don't make out with anyone easily the next time, thus they learn to be wiser and more mature in a sense!
2006-11-04 04:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No that is not true. Some people lose their virginity because they are immature and don't understand the seriousness of what they are doing. Afterwards, they're still the same immature person. You mature as you grow and learn and gain knowledge and apply wisdom in your life. Trying to growup and mature through sex is a very huge mistake.
2006-11-04 09:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I didn't until I was 18. I'm still with the man over a year later. I feel that if my parents weren't so strict and I was allowed to see boys when I was younger, I would have done some things I would have regreted. So it may have made me more immature because I wouldn't have been able to understand the reality of the consequences. Maturity is based on life experiences and wisdom gained. It isn't one night you had with a boy. When the girls "act more mature", it's them trying to ACT grown up, they aren't at all. It's them trying to be cool (unfortunatly).
2006-11-04 04:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by chevgirl101 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Losing virginity at the right age for the right reasons exhibits maturity. Anything other will prove just the opposite!
2006-11-04 05:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by thunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah definitely! I remember looking at my teenage friends who had lost theirs and going "Gee, now there goes a girl or guy, w' a good head on their shoulder, really mature and responsible now!" Of course to be fair, I thought i somehow had "graduated" to a new plain of adulthood when i lost mine too. But no... you don't somehow become magically more mature anymore than you become magically wiser when you reach a certain age. Maturity is about experience,yes, but not just sexual experience. It's life experience, the lessons you learn and then the choices you decide to make that discern a level of maturity.
2006-11-04 04:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by lucky 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No!
Just lacking Basic self-Control(And Self Respect)!
There ain't nothing Cool or Hip about Loosing 'Ones' Virginity!!
When the Time is right-You'll know!
Never Give Away the Most Precious thing you'll want to keep!
2006-11-04 04:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Losing your virginity is not something to be proud of. Once you lose it, you can't get it back. People that lose their virginity too soon means that they let other people persuade them and that's not a good thing. You should do what's right and wait until you know that the person you are with is the right one. It doesn't make you more mature, it just means that other people have a hold of you and want you to do something that you can't get back. Do what you feel is right, but don't let other people persuade you to do something if they have done it or not.
2006-11-04 04:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by To Remain Anonymous 1 · 2⤊ 3⤋
No. Don't look at the girls, look at the boys they slept with, they are still just as childish as they always were, just happier. The girls aren't more mature just more vain and shallow. I'm speaking from personal experience, I must have been a big joke to my virgin friends. All I suddenly cared about were my looks and what I was wearing and if "he" would notice. PATHETIC!
2006-11-04 04:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
They may seem more mature but usually thats not the case. Maturity is in the head. Having sex may make you feel more mature but making mature decisions is what is important..
2006-11-04 04:21:02 · answer #9 · answered by Sonny Boy 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
its not that they magicaly became mature, its that now they have worries they never thought of before, like std's, pregnancy's, does he really like me, why didn't he call, should i call him, whats he doing right now, who did he tell, are my parents gonna find out, and the list can go on. loosing your virginity is stressful no matter what. a girl thinks of it way diffrent then a guy, we want it speacil, and we want great memories of it, and we never forget it, which that just leads to more worries and confusion. don't be in a rush to loose yours, let them have the worries and stress out.
2006-11-04 04:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by Becca 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋