Okay, I had a sexual relationship with this guy, and he and I pretty much have the same circle of friends, he's actually really close to all of the people, and sometimes when I would call he would be like say first and last name loudly, and then when i told him that I din't want everyone to know of our realtionship, he's like well, we did have a realtionship, and he even went on to say that he's told some people but then later on said he was just joking...and then threatened me and told me that he would tell everyone of our realtionship...and then have the nerve to smile at me, when I see him around like everything is cool, so my question is why do you think he would do something stupid like this and tell everyone?
2006-11-04 04:06:10 · 13 answers · asked by Brooke 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
So, let him tell. Its nobodys business anyway. If he does though, i'd tell everyone he wasen't any good. That will fix him.
2006-11-04 04:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by tinamaries43 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he is cruel and insensitive. He has no proof of your sexual encounter. Only if there was some one there in the room with you watching your every move. So, you can let him talk all he wants. If anyone confronts you with it, you can deny it ever happened by saying "In his dreams". And you can add "It's easy for him to push this rumor, since there are no witnesses to back him up". If no one believes you. Don't get all defensive. This is a dead give away. Just keep a cool head, and say "Believe what you wish, I know exactly what happened... nada". From now on be careful and choose your bed partner with care. Jumping in the sack is not a game. It is suppose to be something sacred between two people who really care deeply for one another. That's why it is called "Making Love".
2006-11-04 12:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very clear that he will never have a long term serious relationship with you. The answer to your question is simple. Men and boys who have no respect for girls or women will brag about it. If you meant something to him he would not be joking about it. I'm sure your not the first that he has bragged about his sexual one night stands. So in the the future make sure the guy is mature.The only way to get out of it would be let your circle of friends know that he his just mad at something you did and he is paying you back by spreading this story.
Take care.
2006-11-04 12:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he is testing you to find out how to manipulate you. Have you thought of taking control of him? Now play nice dear,Tell him about the time that you nearly cut one of those things off a guy for something silly,or how about when you and one of your girlfriends got together to play with an opistie you no. Dont let people get you dear thats the game did no one tell you? Let someone get under your skin and you may as well find a nice cave to hide in because they will beat you around like a cat with a mouse. Girls ruel dear you have what they need and it aint just sex either, I should keep my mouth shut but hay Im too old to care anymore, take my advise and play nice but try and keep one step ahead as much as ya can.
2006-11-04 12:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by chris77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds really possessive... He may want other people to know about the relationship and stay away. A little controlling maybe... Most likely was not joking. Best advise I can think of is to dump him in public. Let other people know the relationship is off and he isn't so nice.
2006-11-04 12:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by Nick M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Defuse the situation and admit to having a brief sexual relationship with the guy. Plus, turn it around. Tell people, "Sheeze, you sleep with a guy a few times and he thinks he owns you."
The more you keep it a secret, the more he'll use it against you.
2006-11-04 12:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Brook, you wanna get even dont say he wasn't good.. say it was the smallest thing you ever saw and put it out there... tell people first and say "we tryed, but he couldn't do anything with it" or just tell ppl you almost did but he couldn't get it up. that way when he goes to brag... he'll look soooo stupid. Good luck.
2006-11-04 12:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by me not you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is a typical male.
If anyone says anything, just tell them..." OH ya he has a small PETER too". That will shut him up real quick.
Or just tell him your going to tell people that if they ask about the relationship.
2006-11-04 12:15:35 · answer #8 · answered by Vaffanculo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you take the wind right out of his sails, and tell people yourself first? Then he would have no hold over you. You could even let slip the fact that he wasn't very satisfactory......
2006-11-04 12:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by mad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because he is really immature... You never suppose to kiss and tell... that is crazy... He still has some growing to do and he probably was not that great in bed, so just forget about him and find something bigger and better..
2006-11-04 13:02:21 · answer #10 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋