Female colleage is asking for some fun, I am ùarried, she is married. She looks good and has as much to loose as I have. Should I go for this?
2006-11-04 04:05:16 · 27 answers · asked by Not Needed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Looks in a lot of answers I am the bad one because I am thinking on this. The lady however is the one that is very explicit in what she wants. Why than not go for it? And I can not imagine she is the only one with thoughts like this. If I here here a lot of her friends are talking about stuff like this. Maybe they ar enot on Questions:-)
2006-11-04 04:37:02 · update #1
First ask her if her husband owns any guns
2006-11-04 04:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She obviously is not happy with her husband.Have you led her to think you are unhappy? Has the flirting caught up to you and now your on the spot? You never cheated on your wife have you? You are worried about what you will loose how about the ripple effect of pure pain you will cause? You will get caught. The perfect crime is only perfect if you never tell a single person..EVER. You are posting the question here how many other friends have you asked? Your Buddy's would love to comfort your wife as you are out having fun no what i mean? How about if your wife comes home after a FUN night with a male colleague? Think about it ! Good Luck . There is right and wrong and it is black and white there is no Grey area.
2006-11-04 12:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by gernsplace5150 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around eventually. Your not alone with your temptation. I'm sort of in the same boat, although I'm not married he is. He's a doctor where I work and I feel very tempted to act out on his advances. It's sort of ironic considering my ex cheated on me and ended up marry the s!ut. But, I guess it's that karma thing that makes me realize it's not worth taking the first bite of the apple.. :)
2006-11-04 12:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by one_daytripper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, no! Too much trouble: first she is married; then she is a co-worker. My best friend got into the same situation and ended up having to quit a very lucrative job.
Just tell her NO and that you respect her too much to jeopardize her marriage or your workplace relationship.
There are plenty of unconnected beautiful women in the world for you to get your life in a mess over a married co-worker.
2006-11-04 12:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not if you love your family and care for your marriage...the momentary fun is not worth it. But if you think your marriage is not something you want to carry on with beyond a certain point anyway, you may allow yourself some fun! Maybe this proposal is an opportunity for you to seriously consider how happy you are in your marriage and whether it is worth carrying on. Good luck with your decision!
2006-11-04 12:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by SANDEEP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't risk my marriage for sexual fun. both of you all would be fools if you go along with this. First off you both are married and second you work together. Think about it. If anything goes wrong there is no way out and everyone you know would be in your business.
2006-11-04 13:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by Chuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just divorce your wife and then do it? Or tell your wife and end it n ****....i mean damn...do you HONESTLY want to be that much of an a*shole? What happens if you accidentally get her pregnant? Rush for the abortion and then mark yourself a murderer? Damn, why not ask your wife to go f*ck some dude, make it even and then get back together..see if that works.
2006-11-04 12:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go for it. Find someone who will be yours and only yours and will only be thinking of you each day. I've been there and it is painful. I just found out my ex boyfriend is married. You know from the get go she is married. You'll be the one hurt in the end.
2006-11-04 12:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by sweetone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will this one night stand be worth losing your wife! you are an idiot and you do not appreciate what you have! besides once you start, this will probally be something you do for the rest of your life. Do you really want to be so shallow?
2006-11-04 18:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a chance a year ago to nail this hot blonde and didnt do it,i would have felt very guilty.But i do think of her all the time
2006-11-04 12:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by skinme123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fact is you want to only if you can get away with it so get by u yourself and take matters in your own hands .how many girl have you cheeted on your wife with ?this is a no brainer as men we like that good looking women come on to us but as men we need to control ourselvs
2006-11-04 12:10:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋