I am 17 years old and i just started going to the biggest high school in the state. so far i have made some friends but there aren't people that i am really close with. i don't think i want to graduate from here. well my mom has told me that i could move in with my grandma and finish high school in my old town. i moved from there after 4th grade and i still know practically everyone there, but its been awhile since i have really talked to people. at my last school i spent 5 years there and i have a ton of friends there, a lot of memories and everything. i think i would really like to graduate from there, but since i wouldn't have an address there i can't. i am wondering if i should just wait at my new school until i make more friends or if i should just go ahead and move back with people i kind of know. if i did move i would kind of want to move at semester so that i would spend more time with my old friends. i am just really confused over everything. any advice would be appreciated!
2006-11-04 04:00:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Make some lists...for and against each school. Then think about living with your family...or living with your grandma....another list for and against. Make sure you talk to your grandma about the rules and expectations of her home. Then talk to your mom again. this is the first of many hard decisions you will have to make in your life...think also about what high school may look better to any college you are thinking of attending....Good luck.
2006-11-04 04:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving to new schools arn't very easy, from personal expirience, but you should try and stay for a while, At least make a little more friends. Socalizing is the key. Don't Give up yet, try and get used to your new school. Because you might find out that it isnt so bad.
2006-11-04 12:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by xorenée 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could write down the pros & cons and rate each item two ways ....
1. Importance scale 1 to 10...what do you consider important?
(ie 1 = extremely important & 10 = not important at all)
2. Risk scale 1 to 10 ..what do you consider a risk?
(ie 1 = no risk & 10 = huge risk)
For the most important things that are big risks, stop and ask yourself why you consider them a risk. You have to decide if they are risks worth taking.
Be sure to include your goals (ie college).
2006-11-04 12:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
High school is a once in a lifetime experience. There's alot going on....school dances,sports events,etc. Just make sure whatever you choose you'll have fun and get a good education. Personally I would go back to my hometown.
2006-11-04 13:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by kaluah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... you go to school to learn first of all. The people you talked to already, if you think that they're not close enough, try talking to other people in the school. You can't mess up your education just because you can't get along. Try out other people in the school
2006-11-04 12:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom should have told you that life is one change after another and that you need to get used to things not being perfect and just the way you dream it should be. I think you should spend more time studying than trying to rethink your life.
2006-11-04 12:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋