guys what do you look for in a girl?

Question

what do you look for? personallity, clothing, attitude, body. help! (no unreasonable answers)

Answer 1

There are a few stages of this process...
First of all comes the appearance: a girl's overall look, flare, clothing, smell, and body frame is the first point to attraction. A guy will probably not walk up to a girl because of her good personality if she looks "bad" (how would you know someone's personality beforehand?). People are visual, so the eye is the first tool.
Second is the attitude: the mannerism, the behavior, and the overall style of the girl is perceived next to [beauty]. There's a big difference between a slouched, depressed, lazy couch potato and an energetic, full-of-life, charismatic girl.
Third comes the personality: this is probably the most important factor, as it determines the connection and the possible relationship you guys might have. Guys look for a girl that they can relate to, a girl that can challenge him in all ways. No guy will be attracted to a girl he doesnt look up to...(this is why the hard-to-get girls are more 'attractive'?) but he may act like it just for sex. I think being yourself and allowing your expressions to come through will score the highest marks.

Remember, it is a process. It cant be one thing you possess. Most of all, make sure you are yourself in all ways...never change for someone!

Answer 2

Alot of guys look for a good body. Plain and simple. Even if you have a good body you should avoid those guys. Bassicaly you want a decent combination of all those things. If you're lacking in one area you can make up for it in the others. Also, you should know, clothes don't matter anywhere near as much as girls think they do.

Answer 3

For what? For one-night stands and just a little fun, body, looks, the usual; but for any important relationship, it'd be honesty, independence, maturity, intelligence - someone to talk and laugh and share with.

Answer 4

really it depends on the guy
alot of guys enjoys girls with a since of humor and isnt to shy be confident but not cocky looks are a part of it but not that big of a deal guys dont like girls who are or dress like they are easy. if u are worried about looks try more natural colors in make up and everynow and then try something new or bright. pesonality wise tho humor is good. and not talking about you ex's and dont be 2 faced just be really nice and be yourself.

Answer 5

#1 - Cleanliness
#2 - Passion
#3 - Wit and intelligence
#4 - Does her father own a liquor store

Answer 6

Clothing would be the first thing. Men are visual creatures.

Answer 7

Overal appearance... looks count, but if she turns out to be an airhead, it's adios muchacha!

Answer 8

myself