Look, I need advice. How do you politely drop someone who is obviously not one you would want to let walk your dog, much less be friends with. I was helping out a lady. And she attached herself to me. It is sooo frustrating. She is crude, sarcastic, obviously narcissitic..Just not at all, what I would give to a friend or expect in return from anyone!!
2006-11-04 03:47:09 · 5 answers · asked by heresyhunter@sbcglobal.net 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I appreciate the answers thus far, but I have tried all that, believe me!!!
2006-11-04 04:25:58 · update #1
she has probably hooked onto you because everyone else she knows had gotten rid of her. listen, you are not obligated to be friends with every schmo that decides you are their friend. it is something you decide mutually. tell her clearly to get lost. it's only a matter of time before she turns her bad character traits against you, so protect yourself now.
2006-11-04 03:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by domangelo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make urself "unavailable" to her at all times! it worked when i was doin that! i got rid of her and im so happy,remember,never let people hold u back,u have a life,a brain,feelings,dont let them take it from u!
2006-11-04 11:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by *cutie with a bootie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... try to tell her kindly, ------(her name) Please try to understand but I don't want to be friends with you. I'm sorry. That's what I would do. If she doesn't listen, then I would tell her why I don't want to be friends with her. If she still doesn't listen, then I would curse her out. Good Luck!
2006-11-04 11:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you're talking to her say "well, you know we're not friends, right?"
2006-11-04 11:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by Tiny Dancer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only need one. (I love Paul Simon!) :-))
Simply WALK.
Be busy when she calls.
"Oh, sorry I can't, but thanks anyway."
Repeat.
2006-11-04 11:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by zen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋