can anyone help me!now i am in love,and is it wrong that i told him bot my x boyfriend and the sex(oral) we made?i trusted him and i thought its better to say everything so i told him.we are still goin fine but once he told me that: he cannot forget what i told him and askin me more deep about what all i had with him.is it a mistake what i told him?will he think about it all the time when he is with me?what can i do to make him forget and to accept it only as my past history?how can i help him?will this topic affect after getting married to him? plz anyone answer me..be serious enough.. is he loving me like before?
2006-11-04 03:46:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
mistake, mistake mistake!!! never tell a guy that you had oral sex with anyone else. every guy wants to believe this is the very first time, or at least keep the illusion that it is. learn this for the next time, because, sorry sister, but if you ask me, this relationship is history.
2006-11-04 03:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by domangelo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A gal should never...ever tell her secrets! just because of this reason! some men will hold our past against us! some men will throw our past back up an right into our face! never tell anyone what is in your past , such as this! now you may loose everything you love! if it is the past , keep it there! if you just cheated on him , well you are so silly for telling on your own a_ss!
2006-11-04 04:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are certain things that you should never tell your present partner - the most important one being, about your past partner(s). Of course it will effect him - as long as he is with you he will be asking the question, 'does she still love him'. What is in the past should be kept there.................
2006-11-04 03:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never ever tell about your past sex life, its in the past, its irrelevant as far as I'm concerned, and yes, he probably has some questions, but you should never have mentioned it, there are some things that are good to get out in the open, but your past sex life, isn't one of them... sorry, but good luck.
2006-11-04 04:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by babyatgradys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are so in love, why did you cheat?
Of course this will affect whether he will marry you....he can't trust you anymore.
He will never forget---believe me.
2006-11-04 03:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by draws_with_crayons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋