I have alot of sexual desires and its been really bothering me. I would even hav sexual dreams about boys I fantasize about sometimes.Every time I see a REAL sexi boi I just get so aroused I just want 2 jump on him. Is this normal for my age?? Hav anyobdy experienced this like me at my age?? Im a virgin too but Ive been wanting 2 loosee my virginty 4 along time but Im trying 2 find the right one.Its soooo hard. Females please help me out give me sum advice.
2006-11-04 03:46:07 · 12 answers · asked by H3LL0 KiTTY 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Congrats, you're human =)
Desires and fantasy are absolutely normal. They're a few of the perks of being alive. Enjoy that.
About losing your virginity, though, I'd recommend that you wait until you find someone who you really love, and who loves you. I was fortunate enough to have had that, and my first time was a truely special event. I know other women who didn't have that kind of first-time experience, and when we compare stories, I feel lucky that I was with someone who loved me.
You know what, though? You're 15. You have a long life ahead of you, and this is not a race. There's no prize for losing it early.
2006-11-04 06:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by izzy_a_dumas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think once puberty hits, it's pretty normal to feel aroused. Don't lose your virginity just for the sake of being horny though. Your body is truly a gift and should only be shared with someone you love. Try masturbation instead. You can fulfill your sexual needs, and not sacrafice giving away your virginity to just anyone.
2006-11-04 04:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel,girl. I started having dreams of the sexual nature ate age 16. I am now almost 28 and still dream about doing it with some guy on tv. I hope this helps.
2006-11-04 04:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by Becky J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would say having sexual thoughts or dreams about boys at your age is normal. I would have to agree with everyone else on this board though, SAVE your virginity. Sex is complicated and it doesn't get any good until you are much much older and understand your body...and theirs.
2006-11-04 04:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by Motley Fan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry you are normal. i am 19 and always had dreams and desires abotu boys in school! but dont act on it. do it by your self (maturbate) if your comfortbale with that sorta thing. and "no its not dirty down there" like we were raised by our parents saying that we were. its just your hormones in your body, you are still going through puberty. you will be fine, just enjoy them one day where your all old and saggy it will be harder lol.
you are definately doing the right thing by waiting! you dont want to losse it and just give it up to anyone right? i dated my bf for over a year and a half b4 we both lost ours. peopw always say you should wait till you are married but its always comes down to morals and your personal choice. so dont rush to loose it. and wait a while liek i did just to make sure thats not "all he wants" so i suggest waiting till you are in a serious relationship when you know that he would be "the one". when you do loose it you should be on birth control pills, which you dont habve to worry about now. i started taking b/c when i was 17 cause my cramps were so severe and my periods were very irregular. my mom dragged me to the doctors cause i was missing so much school and work around that time of the month. so you can always talk to her about that in a few years just cause, not to have sex though! and always always always use a condom! protect yourself always!
stay safe! and dont think abotu loosing your virginity somuch for now, just concentrate on school. and get into a good college =)
good luck with whatever you do!
2006-11-04 04:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was exactly like you. I couldn't wait to just do it so that I could stop fantasizing about it. Guess what.....I never stopped. I still fantasize all the time and want to hop on guys. It's just who you are I'm sure. It has calmed down some though since I'm getting older.
2006-11-04 03:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda SSS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't act on your impluses. keep your virginity until you are married. because let's say that you love this boy and you aren't married and you guys have sex. but what if you guys break up? then another guy you love is going to come along and then you are going to have sex with him and this will become a viscious cycle. and what if he has a STD and you get it? when you are married then you only have sex with 1 person for your lifetime. and if you guys get divorced well then you can get married again if you want but it is just better to be married so that you don't get around as much. i have some feelings sometimes (not as extreme) but i don't act on them because i know god wants me to wait. but it is normal
2006-11-04 03:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i felt the same way and i lost my virginity i wasnt even 15 yet. its normal to do feel like that but dont do it. u dont look for a guy to have sex with u will regrett it. i did. wait until u are in love with someone cuz u will have that memory the rest of your life... seriously.. till then. get a vibrator lol
2006-11-04 03:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very normal.Speaking from experience don't TRY to lose your virginity it's the best thing in the world & it's yours!!! Wait WAIT A LONG TIME!!!Sex is complicated.
2006-11-04 03:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by michelle_075 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel that way. But WAIT when it comes to losing your virginity. Sex gets compliacated and at your age you really should just wait.
2006-11-04 04:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by j_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋