because my husband has not had been intimate with me at all he seems quite distant and i am afraid that i have been hurting my baby by stressing out myself could someting be wrong with my baby?
2006-11-04 03:45:19 · 7 answers · asked by ANGRY&HURT 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well you should really start sorting out the main issue here. Your relationship with your husband. Have you talked to him? Is he scared about raising a child? Is he scared he could hurt the baby if he is intimate with you? You should be talking to your husband! Just relax take a deep breath! Realize that you are in control. Breath! You are going to be a wonderful Mother! Now go talk to your husband and tell him how you feel!
Best of Luck!
2006-11-04 03:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by I Ain't Your Momma 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably not, though stress is not good for you or your baby. He probably sees you as different, because you are carrying his child. He may be scared of intercourse because he might think he could hurt the baby. This is NORMAL for a man to feel this way when his wife is pregnant. Talk to him about it, you and he should look through some medical sites (such as WebMD) to better ease his mind that he cannot hurt the baby having sex with you. Your body is well prepared to protect JR due to a closed cervix and the amniotic sack.
Best wishes! I've been down that road before (I have three kids and each time that fear was there)
2006-11-04 03:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by newcovenant0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can hurt your baby with the stress. Your baby feels everything. Start doing some prenatal yoga and lots of walking. This will help you relax, you've got to put you and your baby first. Then, you and your husband should try some counseling. This is a very stressful time for a lot of men- lots of responsibility and life changes coming. You owe it to yourself and your family to try to work it out before the stress of a newborn enters your house. It's too hard to sort out feelings when your worn out and tired.
2006-11-04 03:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jilli Bean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We guys just never seem to get it right. When you want us to, we don't: when you don't want us to, we do; Now is the time to read every answer so far; from a parent and grand pa, everyone has some very good advise. From a male stand point, we are so confused...that women who turned us on with just a come hither glance and had us following like a little puppy dog into the boudoir has suddenly be come a mother (now Dr. Freud enter the picture) just give Tarzan time...it may be the time when he may need to cuddle a little with you and you may have to bring him along this strange new path of intimacy a little slowly...you watch ...he'll catch on...and he'll be like himself before you know it...Congratulations to you both and make sure you both sign up for Lamaze Classes
2006-11-04 10:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by bob r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your husband, and say that you still need the intimacy, this is when he should be cuddling you and rubbing/kissing your tummy, singing/reading to the baby, etc. Some men worry, but tell him not to, because even sex won't hurt the baby.
2006-11-04 03:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wut you need to do is stop stressing because that can affect the baby. It can lead to misscarriage. My sister had that same problem and she was always stressed out and ended up having a misscarriage. So please I ask please don't stress too much. Tke some time away or something. It isn't healthy for the baby when you are stressed out the baby feels it and will know when the baby is born.
2006-11-04 04:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by BabyMamma19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think it will harm your baby its just your hormones playing up its natural men usualy go abit distant i think they are scared of hurting you or something
2006-11-04 03:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by julie327495 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋