he dreamed i fell off and after that i became a kid with adult mind ,then he asked why u became like this ,i said I dont know and i ate foods like kids and he was so sad ..what does it mean?
2006-11-04 03:34:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
fell off = change
became a kid = need to be taken care of
with adult mind = what you are now to him, conflict
ate foods like kids and was so sad = denial
Your husband probably have some insecure feeling about himself. Subconsciously he may think he is not providing enough to you. By projecting you as a kid, he has this responsibility to take care of you.
However, he has some conflict feeling about being with you. In other words, he wants to take care of you, but you being his wife with adult mind may often take the control off from him. So, he may be confused in reality. As a matter of fact, he may have some anxiety about his own role in the family.
Eating kids food symbolizes act of what most children would do. He was sad because he feels guilty about not able to give you what you should deserve. That sad or upset feeling is a reflection of conflict, confusion and self blame of not being good enough as a husband.
He may not notice, but this is coming out from his subconscious mind and deep down, he cares about you but yet he may want you to be independent.
2006-11-04 03:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would assume he has a fear of losing you to the children (if you have any), or he's afraid your mind is going to back down away from him, and he could lose you emotionally. If you think about it, you regress into a child's state, whether or not you are thinking like an adult. if you have children, he probably has a fear that they have become more important to you than him, or he's going to lose you to them. If there are marital problems (which I hope there arent) this could be very common. Dreams are usually our thoughts and fears all mangled up into a story for 3 seconds, playing with our brain. I dont think you or he needs to worry, I think it's just a small fear exposing itself in the most primitive way. They dont dictate your life, and maybe check out a book on Sigmund Freud, a terrific resource for dreams and our minds subconscious.
2006-11-04 03:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by overwhelmed85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it relatively is incredibly basic... the dream skill you're VERY worried and apprehensive that he's having an affair. It would not advise he's having one... in basic terms which you're suspicious and worried... eventualities: He may well be having an affair or affairs and perchance you have picked up on subliminal tricks of this. He might no longer be having an affair and you're basically an extremely jealous individual. He might no longer be having an affair, yet come to a sort to have one if he's continually going to be accused of having one. He might no longer be having an affair and your fears and targets are killing your intercourse life and your marital courting. you could't have a sturdy courting the place there is no have faith. Your targets tell me there is no have faith on your area. in case you have no longer any evidence or suspicious circumstances that must be indicative of an affair, then putting all this attempt into demanding approximately one will basically harm your marriage. I advise you circulate to a psychologist for marital counseling... by skill of your self. If the counselor needs your husband in, a request would be made for him to attend the a number of conferences.
2016-11-27 02:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by baksi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be just the food he ate before bed that gave him an odd dream..could be he watched a movie that had a similar theme to it...could be some deep meaning to it.(you would have to find out what rem he was in at the time...)..or it could just be one of those weird dreams that make you go.."huh!!!"..
You could always look up dream menaing on the net or thru a book..look for the key words instead of the whole dream
2006-11-04 03:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too much information, but I think he cares about you so much, and he is concerned. Something is or may happen to you that will change things between you, that will change you. Watch your steppes, be careful, something might happen that will change you, and you might be unable to take care of you. He is worried about you, and doesn't know why it happened.
Since the information are not much, it also could mean that he is projecting his dream onto your face, and he wonders why is happens, he would feel out of control, unable to deal with it.
That is only if you believe in dreams!
2006-11-04 04:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by Diamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreamin about someone who fells down means this person fails somethin in his/her life...u become a kid with adult mind means that ur husband finds u soo inoccent just like a real kid but lately he found out that u r not as inoccent as he thought...he feeling sad for that means he wanted u to be inoccent
2006-11-04 04:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to protect you like a father figure would ,but he knows you are capable of taking care of yourself,so he is disappointed that you don't need him like this way,he knows deep down if you were the way he would like it to be,and changed into that way ,you would be a unequal person in this marriage,more a small daughter than wife,hes dream has shown him that ,and its made him sad because he knows the reality would be wrong for you ,its normal for a husband to feel protective to his beautiful wife especially at first,as time goes along both partners learn each others strengths and weaknesses.
2006-11-04 03:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2006-11-04 04:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband wishes to return to his childhood. He is unhappy with the way things are and feels that life is too complicated.
Take him out for an ice cream sundae,with bannanas,he will get better.
2006-11-04 03:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
despite popular belief, dreams do not mean anything. It is a way for your brain to get rid of nervous energy.
Dreams are the result of your brain recuperating. When you sleep you are getting rid of toxin's from your body and your brain is no exception. It responds by giving you dreams.........they really do not correspond with anything in the real world.
2006-11-04 03:39:03 · answer #10 · answered by Vluersdantine 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋