How many people in your life really "get you"....I mean know you inside out, predict your moods, understand the person you really are deep down?
2006-11-04 03:28:32 · 11 answers · asked by ang_172 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Generally, only your best friends and those are few and far between. Your lovers or your spouses can fill this role but often we are not honest with the people we are intimate with. We avoid honesty with these people for fear of repercussions such as a fight, hurt feeling, etc. If you have a really good friend, they know the truth about you because you are not afraid to tell a friend the truth. Now this is a real friend. Friendships are time tested and will endure as long as your friend does not gossip and really has your best interests at heart. Your friend is your lover without the sex and you know there will never be sex. It takes many years to establish this kind of friendship so that is why I say that true friends are often limited to one or tow people in a lifetime. Also, you have to want to be understood. If you hold back your real feelings and opinions, no one will ever understand you and that will be your loss.
2006-11-04 03:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on which stage you are in with your life.. you have to be able to know a person inside and out in order to call them your soul mate anyways.. But I believe that you can allow as many people as you want to get to know you... Some people forget the important things, some relationships fall off, and some just don't make it.. You have to just learn when and who to allow into your life or circle... People we only live and love once... The question is how do you make it last without the hurt?
2006-11-04 13:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe any--simply because even I don't always know who I am deep down; I still surprise myself.
2006-11-04 11:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by Beca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On Average?
2.4
2006-11-04 11:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by econdrone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mostly ur best friends and family should get u. i guess really, my mom and best friend get me more than my bro or dad. my best friend pretty much sometimes knows me, and my mom pretty much, but as far as knowing EVERYTHING about me, etc. and knowing exactly who i am deep down inside, and knowing everything...me?
2006-11-04 12:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by ♥#1 Miley Cyrus Fan♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me see
50 years old
still married after 32 years
2 kids, 5 grandkids... inlaws, out laws.. siblings, friends
number that Get me
ZERO
2006-11-04 11:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by lady_available_4luv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No-one I know is a mind reader. Although my husband and my twin come very close.
2006-11-04 11:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by Sorcha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite a few and growing.
2006-11-04 12:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by aldiaz2wheare 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i only have 1. shes perfect. i "get" her also..
2006-11-04 11:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by life_will_be_ok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none really
2006-11-04 11:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by phrani c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋