When two couples are close and spend alot of time together how common is it?
2006-11-04 03:22:51 · 11 answers · asked by Johnny S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Common
2006-11-05 04:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Brian 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a guy, I'm pretty sure I can have sexual feelings for many womenso that is not an issue. Having feelings for your friend's spouse, that is an issue.
In a phrase: JUST DON'T DO IT.
Want to think about it? You bet. Something tells me you'll find the wanting and fantasy will be better than the actuall having.
How many lives are you going to ruin just so you get Mr. Happy all wet? If you're someone who doesn't care, then why are you even asking? As you ask, you must know on some level it is wrong.
2006-11-04 03:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Geo-Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens a lot. There's nothing wrong with being attracted to someone other than your wife - you're ALIVE after all.... just don't do anything beyond keeping it all in your head as a fantasy. It's when you cross the line and act on your fantasy that starts the ball rolling downhill quickly.
2006-11-04 03:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably happens more often than most people would care to admit. It's one thing to think someone other than your spouse is attractive--that's only natural and human and can't be helped. BUT if the attraction has you wanting to act on it, you got a problem.
2006-11-04 03:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all HUMAN. And human means we can look at a guy or gal and feel sexual feelings.
Acting on these sexual feelings is WRONG if married.
Stay away and dont tough or LUST after another woman. You made a commitment to your wife and she to you. If you dont LOVE her tell her and get out. Otherwise keep your feelings to yourself and your _____ in your pants.
2006-11-04 03:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Nevada Pokerqueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just tempted because it's "forbidden fruit". There's nothing there worth having, trust me. Go home and make love to your wife. And if you're not married, get married.
2006-11-04 03:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by CJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very common
2006-11-04 03:37:57 · answer #7 · answered by whatever2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you considering a dalliance, Johnny? Don't do it!
Its not uncommon at all, unfortunately.
Ive been attracted. I have acted on it, and lost.
Learn from me.
2006-11-04 03:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. I think it happens alot, and most people just leave it at that or have private fantasies.
2006-11-04 03:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me!...of course, I lie a lot
2006-11-04 03:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋